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    How to overcome failure?

    I am a writer by profession. Many of my articles have been published in leading publications and i have received appreciation for the same. But in the past few months many of my articles have been rejected and thus not published. I can’t understand the reason for the sudden turn of events. I am not being able to accept this failure and i think am going into depression. Please tell me what should i do?

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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    * First of all, dont be worried or afraid of failures....!

    * Its all your bad time that your articles recently did not get published...

    * Ask the question to yourself, " Why is this happening like this?"

    * The reason may be your articles will be good but some others would have produced articels much better than you...!

    * So, improve your articles' quality...

    * Today is a world of Competition... Survival of the fittest...!

    * Inorder to get your articles get published, do the same work in a different manner..

    * You have to attract readers in many ways for example, theme, story, the thrill or suspense in it, the way you proceed, language, lucid style, clarity, bottomline...!

    * All the parameters must be good enough and attract all ages of readers from young to the old ones...!

    * Finally I say, Failures are not permanent ...! Don't be afraid of them...! show them who you are...! Prove yourself....!!!


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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    I think the trend has changed.

    May be you are sending the same kind of stories every time,

    There won't be nothing new.

    This might have happened i think so.

    So, just ask them a feedback for the rejection.

    They will suggest you some changes.

    Or otherwise you can compare with the things that are published.,

    And change accordingly .

    Change is the nature of life.

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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    Dear aspirant,
    never loose hope we have to try til we succeed.as there is popular quote "practice makes man perfect".keep trying .

    Thank u

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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    Hello pal


    You just follow the below Steps

    Remind your self that you are good enough

    Expect Mistakes

    Forget about how other people view you

    Remain calm

    Stop worrying

    Start Laughing

    REVIEW WHAT THE FAILURE HAS TAUGHT YOU

    Allow yourself to fail on that purpose

    Stay in present



    GOOD LUCK

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    Re: How to overcome failure?
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    Hi friend,
    Hope you are in good health and good state of mind!
    It's always a treat and fun to answer your queries.
    I also appreciate the confidence that you have shown in us!


    See,you need to understand that life is not like a bed full of roses.
    It is a hard battle.
    Success and failure are two sides of a coin as far as life is concerned.
    Try to identify why your articles are getting rejected.
    Don't go into depression.
    Instead of thinking about negative things,you must utilise this energy in a positive way.
    Spend more time thinking before writing down the article.
    Some of the things that you can do for combating stress are as follows-

    1) Yoga
    2) Meditation
    3) Relaxation
    4) Time Management
    5) Talking to someone who you like to share your thoughts

    These things will help you to come out of depression and I'm sure you'll reach new heights in the future!


    I hope I have answered all your doubts.
    It was a pleasure answering your queries.
    Hope that you'll come up with some more challenging queries!
    Till then,take care.
    Bye!




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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    hello friends..

    @do not be think always your failure

    @think your success only at time failure also

    @do not think always negative think positive

    @do not be irritate and frustrate

    @always be cool and simple

    @for stress purpose do yoga or medication,do relaxation

    @always be confident in your stories

    @write a good story with good matter and think wisely

    @your failure will be gone

    all the best


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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    Failures integral part of life,some time if you get success you find yourself happy .But in case of failure you find yourself alone so Here are some tips which can help you in such cases-

    1 Try to make contact to your well wishers like parents,elder brothers/sisters,girl friend/boy friend,these all people know your capabilities so they will help you.

    2 Do failure analysis,try to find out some reasons due to which you got failed.Don't repeat those actions again.

    3 If you have good advisers like seniors who understand you then go to them and tell them all the problems faced by you.They have experience of such situations so they can tell you some tips to solve your problems.

    If you failed in exams then it's not failure it's only rejection so you have to upgrade yourself before next attempts.

    Feel free to ask further,
    Best of luck.

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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    hi friend,

    overcoming failure:

    first don't think that you are a failure candidate.

    also don't forget that "failures are the stepping stones to success".

    to overcome the failure we have to understand where the steps we have taken were wrong

    also you should be concentrating on the things

    as well as you should be aware that this is not only your life.and it is a part of life.

    career plays major role in our life.

    have a destination in your mind.

    work hard for that

    keep a positive attitude.

    go on with your work.well

    all the best

    regards srilekha

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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    hello friends..

    ## always think positive do not think about your failure

    ## always be think how to achieve your success

    ##keep hardwork on your failure work

    ## you will get good results

    all the best


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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    Dear,
    Come on. A writer is always having a creative mind. So why are destroying your mind by being in depression? I have some tips for you.
    1. Be positive.
    2. Sometimes the extra-ordinary write-ups are rejected in the beginning, but when they are felt and realised they are worshiped world-wide like anything.
    3. I think as you are a good, well-known and famous writer then you must not be suffering from monetary problems..If so even ther is nothing to worry
    4. Try for some other publication houses..who can smell the cream that you have got out of the curd.
    5. Allow your depression to create write-ups. You must be knowing most of our eminent writers' creations are done during depressive atmospheres.
    6. pump your imagination. create plots for new story, new poems, new novels..etc.
    7. Do not sit idle. engage your mind in something you like to have...
    8. As we know failure is pillar of success..who knows a more grater success is awaiting you to welcome...!!!!
    THINK POSITIVE...You will be happy definitely..
    Bye take care.

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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    This is one of the common question on the mouth of every person who faces it,be it an employee or a student or a businessman.Some takes advice and work on,some keep on trying and others try some alternative measures to achieve success.Since you received appreciation of your job at one time,so it proves that you are worthy and can definitely overcome the failure.

    It is just you need to channelize your effort and intelligence in the right direction.This is a competitive world where results matter at the end of the day and if you are unable to produce the desired one,then your efforts hold no value.Hence your aim should be to produce the desired results.

    First of all,stress on innovations.This is a feature of humans that a same monotonous thing feels boring after some time.Hence you have to bring changes and modifications in your publications to hold the interest of the people.This is the most important factor in this modern world to remain in the limelight.Try to analyze what all mistakes you are doing in the publications and strive hard to improve on those fields.

    Have a positive attitude towards work and hope for the best.Never let your confidence level go down or become depressed.There is a phase of tough time in everyone's life so you have to deal with it with your hard work and patience.Be calm and focused.You can ask the readers and take their feedback regarding your publications.Give importance on their words and try to improve on those fields.After preparing a publication,show it to one of your readers may be of your family or at office and see his interest level in reading and do the changes as needed before releasing the actual copy.

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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    This is one in every of the common question on the mouth of each one who faces it,be it associate worker or a student or a businessperson.Some takes recommendation and work on,some persevere attempting et all strive some various measures to attain success.Since you received appreciation of your job at just the once,so it proves that you just are worthy and may positively overcome the failure.

    it's simply you wish to channelize your effort and intelligence within the right direction.This is a competitive world wherever results matter at the tip of the day and if you're unable to provide the specified one,then your efforts hold no price.Hence your aim ought to be to provide the specified results.

    initial of all,stress on innovations.This is a feature of humans that a same monotonous issue feels boring when it slow.Hence you have got to bring changes and modifications in your publications to carry the interest of the folks.This is the foremost vital think about this contemporary world to stay within the limelight.Try to analyze what all mistakes you're doing within the publications and try laborious to boost on those fields.

    Have a positive perspective towards work and hope for the most effective.Never let your confidence level go down or become depressed.There is a section of robust time in everyone's life therefore you have got to touch upon it along with your labor and patience.Be calm and targeted.You can raise the readers and take their feedback relating to your publications.Give importance on their words and check out to boost on those fields.After making ready a publication,show it to at least one of your readers is also of your family or at workplace and see his interest level in reading and do the changes pro re nata before emotional the particular copy.

    Failures integral a part of life,some time if you get success you discover yourself happy .But just in case of failure you discover yourself alone therefore Here are some tips which may assist you in such cases-

    Try to create contact to your well wishers like oldsters,elder brothers/sisters,girl friend/boy friend,these all folks recognize your capabilities so that they can assist you.
    Do failure analysis,try to conclude some reasons owing to that you bought failing.Don't repeat those actions once more.
    If you have got smart advisers like seniors WHO perceive you then visit them and tell all the issues long-faced by you.They have expertise of such things so that they will tell you some tips to unravel your issues.

    If you failing in exams then it is not failure it's solely rejection therefore you have got to upgrade yourself before next makes an attempt.

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    Re: How to overcome failure?

    First of all you should dont think about negative things only
    It was you only who has written so many good articles which were not only published but were appreciated.
    Now with few articles not being published cant be called a failure

    You should continue writing articles.
    Forget about what happened earlier
    Also first try to get feedback from the publishing house that why your articles were rejected.
    Once you get the reasons you can make sure that you do not repeat those mistakes and write good articles.
    So be positive and continue writing

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