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    How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    I am working in a small private firm. Recently I had a fight with my boss. At that time I was so furious that I didnít apologize to him. But later I realized that it could badly affect my job. Now I really want to make up with him as he hasnít been talking to me for the past 2 days. How to make up with him?

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    Re: How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    Dear you have really disappointed your boss because this is not right and official behavior given by you in the company and you did not fight with any colleague, you have fought with your boss that is extremely bad for you and for your career in that company and this will definitely take you to the destruction of your job because your manager will not forgive you in this case and when you have realized that you have done something wrong for your career so first of all you should leave worrying about this issue because you have realized but this time is for request from the manager to forgive you one time and when it has been three days of your fight then it has been a long time but there is a hope for you and you should not leave this opportunity

    Just go to your office and direct go to the cabin of your boss and say good morning sir and be respective and candid during to talking to your manager and then you should not mention anything else and directly say that " Respected sir unfortunately I misbehaved with you at that day and in past two days, I was only thinking that I have disrespected you and I heart you as well and this is not professional behavior done by me in the company and this may be taken negative against me but I am really sorry sir for that day when I fought you and raised my voice against your management, please forgive me and I am really apologize for that and if you think better then you may terminate me from this company because according to my behavior, I have no right to stay in this company but before firing me please forgive me and keep positive thoughts about me"

    If you will behave good during apologizing because of your misbehaving and show that you are really sorry for that issue and everything done because of your mistake then your manager will definitely forgive you in this case and keep your service continue and also will think positive about your behavior and listen to your boss whatever they say and accept their arguments and keep your job continue in that office

    All the best


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    Re: How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    Hello,

    You should meet him and say how sorry you are about the incident.
    It is better to say sorry and ask for forgiveness to a superior person.
    It shows your strength in sorting issues. You should never fight with
    your boss in office place, if don't agree with him then silenece is the
    best answer.

    Bye,

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    Re: How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    Hi aspirant

    You should definitely not have fought with your boss and should have said sorry to him at that time itself. But now what is done can't be undone and thus you should try making up for it as soon as possible. You should see to it that your boss doesn't hold this grudge against you for long and try to settle this matter as soon as possible. You should better go and apologize to him as soon as possible.

    Tell him that you are extremely sorry for what happened that day. You should definitely not have fought with him and must have apologized to him instantly. But you don't know what happened to you and that you carried on with the fight. You assure him that such a thing will never ever happen again and are extremely sorry for such ridiculous behaviour on your part. You hope that he will forgive you and will speak to you as before.

    I hope that your boss forgives you. Always make it a point to maintain good relations with your boss. Good luck and thanks

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    Re: How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    Hello,

    I will not appreciate what ever you have done.You may have problems or may differ in opinions with him,but you should not be so expressive and furious in front of your him.Always keep it in mind that while you are in office,you are supposed to behave in a controlled manner.Being furious and then shouting or arguing in front of your boss is not proper at all.You have mentioned that your boss has stopped talking to you since last 2 days .Before the situation even worse,go immediately to your boss's cabin and apologise to him stating that you are really sorry the way you have behaved.If your boss says you anything dont argue,just listen silently to what he says.Also make it a point that you dont repeat this sort of behaviour in future.

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    Re: How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    Hi friend..,

    I think you have fought with your boss that is extremely bad for you and for your career in that company and this will definitely take you to the destruction of your job .
    your manager will not forgive you in this case and when you have realized that you have done something wrong for your career so first of all .
    you should leave worrying about this issue because you have realized but this time is for request from the manager to forgive.
    you one time and when it has been three days of your fight then it has been a long time but there is a hope for you and you should not leave this opportunity.
    your boss whatever they say and accept their arguments and keep your job continue in that office.

    Thanks!!!
    ALL THE BEST..............

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    Re: How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    hi,
    it was very dissapointed to mess up with your boss and second mistake is not to apologise him for your mistake.after realising your mistake it is the time to go directly to your boss and greet him with a good wish and apologise for your mistake and say that i will never repeat the mistake.say that i wont repeat such mistakes and i will abide to the rules and regulations which will be given by you.say that if i did any mistake of such type i will resign the job.

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    Re: How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    Dear aspirant...

    Well...As you have realised, don't be in a hurry to make up with your boss...It doesn't mean that you think for days together in order to impress him...

    >Try to stand up to your boss only in an agreeable mood...

    > It is important to stand up straight and assure yourself that you are in charge..This helps to put you in a position of power and makes your boss feel like you are really serious..

    > Be reasonable-
    Most of the time a reasonable person will be able to negotiate better than someone who is angry and upset..

    Hope this will help you...

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    Re: How to make up with the boss after a fight?

    Hii friend as you said that you were having fight with your boss. Then you should apologies to him urgently because after all he is your boss all your work was done by him so at least you have to apologies to him.
    Thanking you hopes you like my suggestionÖÖÖ

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