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    How to help my colleague to get over his shyness?

    I am working in a private firm. One of my colleagues, who has recently joined the company is very shy by nature and thus is facing a lot of difficulty here.He does not mix with anyone and also keeps his problems to himself. I donít think this is good for him and thus want to help him. How to help him to get over his shyness?

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    Re: How to help my colleague to get over his shyness?

    shyness is something that only fades away once you are comfortable with someone. once somebody feels secure enough and starts to trust the environment around him , since the employee is new he or she definitely will take his or her time and eventually start to get comfortable in developing a conversation with those around. all u can do to help is be friendly and nice and see to that if he needs any help it is provided. a good environment will only motivate him to open up more . you dont want too be too pushy also yet try to make him feel friendly. inviting him to after office hours social events could be another way of getting rid of shyness.!!

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    Dear guest,

    being shy is nothing new. Many people get shy and fail to express their feelings. A lot of great people were shy but could get on with their life. Famous scientist Albert Einstein was shy. Even then he made huge unimaginable contributions to the field of science. So I reckon that your friend who is of course shy will do things better even though you may think it is inappropriate.

    If you stil want to help him then you must know one thing. Does he want to be corrected? Does he want to overcome shyness? Well if he does then you need to tell him that you are there for him. Fixing his appointment to a good psychiatrist would be good. He can suggest him ways to overcome it. You can personally ask him to share his problems with you..

    I hope you and he both make good friends..

    Thank you...

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    Hi aspirant

    Its good to see that you are so concerned about your colleague. You should definitely help him out in this matter to get over his shyness as otherwise he will never be able to succeed in this or any other job for that instance. Firstly you should tell him to be confident of himself and his abilities and then he will surely be able to remove his shyness while communicating with others.

    He should not hesitate to speak to anyone regarding his problems or just have a friendly chat. The more he socialises with his colleagues, the more he will get rid of this shyness oh his. With time everything will be alright and then he will definitely be able to steer his career in the right direction.Otherwise he will never be able to prove himself to anyone and his capabilities will never come to the fore, if he doesn't remove his shyness.

    I am sure that your friend will listen to you and this will get rid of his shyness. Good luck and Thanks

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    Yes.you are right.shy person face many difficulty in life because they can not share anything to anyone & keeps their problem himself.so problem is not getting solve.
    now you want to help to him to over his shyness.
    His shyness can not over immediately.
    For that , if you remain with him for more time , then his shyness start to over slowly.
    His nature will change slowly slowly & once he will not a shy person.
    For that you can also try some tricks by which his shyness will get over

    Getting over your friend's shyness

    --> Become a good friend & try to share with him.now he will also start share with you
    --> Try to help him in his problem.so he will start to tell all the things & problems
    --> Introduce him with your friends in your company
    --> Try to understand how to face a problems & get solution of that in critical situation.

    if he remain in friend circle in your company , then his shyness will start to over & he fill comfortable then after.
    His nature will become friendly & his communication skill will also improved.

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    Re: How to help my colleague to get over his shyness?

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. One of my colleagues, who has recently joined the company is very shy by nature and thus is facing a lot of difficulty here.He does not mix with anyone and also keeps his problems to himself. I donít think this is good for him and thus want to help him. How to help him to get over his shyness?

    Hello Aspirant,

    There are persons each with different in nature.Some one is introvert & others are extrovert.Introvert people talk to the point where as extrovert people talk much.The extrovert people is very keen in flattering the boss & others.Also they can blame others.

    Of course it is not good to be shy in nature.This type of persons may be exploited by others easily.You can help him to overcome such problem as follows:-

    Motivate him by appreciating his merit in front him.

    Motivate him with comaring him with all others colleagues & even his seniors & superiors.

    Motivate him by saying that all the human beings are alike in physical parts & one can get any valuable post on his/her efforts.

    Initiate him to talk mor & more.Ask him to tell his daily routine works in normal case.

    Ask about his favourite players,hero,Actress etc.

    Some time blame him in order to defend himself.

    Like wise he will be slowly bold enough to face any situations.

    Good luck.

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    dear friend

    everyone have their own nature. you can help them to change, but if they dont want to change themselves
    then you cant do anything. there are a lot of people who get shy.
    if you want to help your colleague then first of all you can check that whether he is comfortable
    in the office or not.
    if he is not comfortable then tell him that you are with him
    and ask him to call you when there is any problem
    mix up him with the office staff
    slowly slowly he 'll mix up dont worry

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    Hello friend,
    Once when there is a new joinee, he is a bit shy and takes time in adapting to the people and the environment in the office. With time he will be out of his shell and gel more with all around. You can go a long way in helping him out in this matter as you have been a part of this company before he joined. So introduce him to your friends, help him out in his work, help him in making direct contacts with people who can be of help to him, plan out some outings with your colleagues and tell him to be present too. This will be a nice way for him to open up in an informal way.
    He will open up and won't be like this forever. With time this happens and also your cooperation will be of great help. So take the responsibility of making him comfortable.

    All the best

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    Dear this is good to see you that you are dedicated to the colleagues and really helpful for your all co-workers and this shows that how caring you are for your colleagues and to your personal family and this is the good quality in you that proves that you are responsible to your work and if you wants to help that person out how is really shy in your office then you have decided to take a very good duty in your office and this will make your good and famous in the office premises and will also increase the chances of your hikes in company

    First of all you should contact to that person and communicate everyday and make at least 10 minutes of conversation in the office when he comes and turn your relations to as friend and then only you will be able to help him because a friend can make to understand another friend better than any other one that is why he will follow you whatever you will instruct him in the work and he will come to you always whenever he needed for help in the work and also introduce him with every employee of the company and tell him that each one is friend in this office and whenever you need any type of help then you may ask from anyone and this will not create interruption, this will create friendly atmosphere in the company and you and all should help him at every way because each one has separate quality so you may also be at his place one day in any critical work so that one will also help you

    All the best

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    Re: How to help my colleague to get over his shyness?

    Hi friends..,

    I think every one their own nature
    Many people get shy and fail to express their feelings.
    A lot of great people were shy but could get on with their life.
    Famous scientist Albert Einstein was shy. Even then he made huge unimaginable contributions to the field of science.
    So I reckon that your friend who is of course shy will do things better even though you may think it is inappropriate.

    If you stile want to help him then you must know one thing.
    Does he want to be corrected? Does he want to overcome shyness? Well if he does then you need to tell him that you are there for him.
    Fixing his appointment to a good psychiatrist would be good.
    He can suggest him ways to overcome it.
    You can personally ask him to share his problems with you..

    I hope you and he both make good friends..

    Thanks!!!
    ALL THE BEST............

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    Re: How to help my colleague to get over his shyness?

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. One of my colleagues, who has recently joined the company is very shy by nature and thus is facing a lot of difficulty here.He does not mix with anyone and also keeps his problems to himself. I donít think this is good for him and thus want to help him. How to help him to get over his shyness?
    Dear Aspirant,

    Thanks for thinking positively for your new colleague.Only few are like you.Most of the persons like to utilize the juniors for themselves.

    Your colleague may be by nature in shyness or he might be watching the situation because of being new to the place.Whatever the case may be.He must be helped in order to make him bold.In this connection what I have observed in my life that situation teaches the persons lessons,provided the persons concerned are aware of their duty & right as per the constitution of India.They must have intention to win & survive in the prevailing situation.

    So let your colleague face different situations & interact with him regarding his daily situation & problems.Boost him morally that "you can be any one as per your will & wish provided you try for the same.Let him be exposed in different environment.Accompany with him for movie,temples,Other colleagues.Ask his feeling in different fields.

    Like wise he will be fit to face any situation & may be your very grateful for your help.

    Thanks & good luck.


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    hi,

    hyness is something that only fades away once you are comfortable with someone. once somebody feels secure enough and starts to trust the environment around him , since the employee is new he or she definitely will take his or her time and eventually start to get comfortable in developing a conversation with those around. all u can do to help is be friendly and nice and see to that if he needs any help it is provided. a good environment will only motivate him to open up more . you dont want too be too pushy also yet try to make him feel friendly. inviting him to after office hours social events could be another way of getting rid of shyness.!!

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    Precious this is sweet to see an individual that you're dedicated towards the fellow workers and incredibly very helpful for ones most co-workers this also reveals that the way nurturing you might be for ones fellow workers and in your individual loved ones and this can be the high-quality within you this demonstrates that you're dependable in order to work and when you wishes to guide that person away how's definitely scared with your workplace then you've got made a decision to acquire a very good job with your workplace and this will you could make your excellent and renowned at work driveway as well as boost the likelihood of a person's increases with business

    First of all you need to get in touch with in order to that person and talk each day and make at the very least 10 minutes involving discussion at work when he occurs and switch a person's operations in order to while friend and then you alone are able to guide them due to the fact somebody could make to grasp one more friend a lot better than any one that will be precisely why he'll observe an individual what you may will certainly teach them from the work and he will certainly come your way continually every time your dog needed for guide from the work and also bring in them with every single staff member with the business and simply tell him this they all are friend with this office and every time you may need just about any guide then you might check with from any one and this will definitely not make dysfunction, this may make helpful ambiance from the business and you and also most need to guide them at every method due to the fact every one has split good quality therefore you can even be at his or her area some day in a significant work to ensure that you are going to additionally guide you.
    Thanks pertaining to contemplating absolutely for ones new colleague.Only very few resemble you.Most involving the people such as make use of a juniors pertaining to themselves.

    The co-worker could be of course with shyness or even he often be watching your situation due to remaining new to a place.Whatever the truth might be.He have to be made it easier for to enable them bold.In this link what I personally have observed with gaming this circumstance educates the people instructions,supplied the people troubled are sensitive to their particular job & appropriate depending on a composition involving India.They will need to have objective in order to get & pull through with the prevailing situation.

    So permit a person's co-worker encounter unique predicaments & get connected to them concerning his or her regular circumstance & problems.Boost them morally this "you could be anybody depending on a person's will certainly & hope supplied an individual try for a same.Let them often be uncovered in numerous environment.Accompany with them pertaining to flick,wats or temples,Other colleagues.Ask his or her sensation in numerous fields.

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    Re: How to help my colleague to get over his shyness?

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. One of my colleagues, who has recently joined the company is very shy by nature and thus is facing a lot of difficulty here.He does not mix with anyone and also keeps his problems to himself. I donít think this is good for him and thus want to help him. How to help him to get over his shyness?
    hallo friend..

    here are some information for you..This are" How to help my colleague to get over his shyness"..for this you should do the following things:

    1)You can ask him to share with you his/her personal problem.
    2)mix up hiim with another office colliuege.
    3)attend many official parties.
    4)Make more friends.chat with friends any social network site orr mobile.
    5)you should fix a plan for outing with a group a friends.
    6)make him introduce with many friends,staff etc.
    Thus he can get rid off from hid shyness.


    Hope this information will helps you in future.
    For further information please post here.
    thanking you...
    Regards from you@

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