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    How to end the cold war between me and one of my colleagues?

    I am working in a government organisation. Recently I had a fight with one of my colleagues. After that day we never speak to each other and even donít look at each other. But now I think that I should try to end this cold war between the two of us. How to proceed further?

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: How to end the cold war between me and one of my colleagues?

    Hello,

    You should talk to him and tell him your feelings about them. It is difficult to speak with soneone
    with whom you had a fight in the past but you should speak to him and try to end this once and for
    all. Sometimes we need to make bold statements in our life and this could be your chance to make
    one.

    Bye,

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    lifesamess Array
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    Re: How to end the cold war between me and one of my colleagues?

    Hi aspirant

    Its very good and wishful thinking on your part that you want to end the cold war between you and your colleague. I hope that your colleague also realises this and thus you both become friends again. You should certainly do your best to end this enemity. You should go and directly talk to him and I am sure that you will be able to resolve this matter. You should not hesitate and do it as soon as possible.

    Go to your colleague during your free time..Break the ice by talking to him. Tell him that you want to end this cold war that has been going on between the two of them for quite sometime now. You are sorry for what happened that day and hope that he too will be sorry for his mistake. You want to become friends with him again and want to end this war right now. You hope that he will comply with your wishes and make up with you. You hope that such a thing will never be repeated again.

    I am sure that your colleague, too, will be longing to end this enemity and then your problem will be solved. Good luck and thanks

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    aman Array
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    Re: How to end the cold war between me and one of my colleagues?

    It is really a good and intelligent decision that you want to end this cold war between you and your colleague.

    As he is your colleague it is possible that you need help of each other at any time, also these things creates a sort of unnecessary stress.

    So if you want to finish the fight the best way is that go straight to him and tell him that you were sorry for whatever happened on that day.

    If he is sensible and intelligent guy he will automatically give you a positive response as it might be possible that the way you are thinking similarly he is also

    thinking but is not able to initiate.

    See such things can happen at any time, but the important thing is that you realize your mistake and take actions to rectify the same.

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