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    How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?

    I am married and have a good life at home and after work I like to go home and relax. however since most of my colleagues are unmarried they like to hang out at a bar after work everyday and they even tease me if I donít join them. I like to go with them once or twice a week but not everyday. How do I stop all this teasing?

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    Re: How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am married and have a good life at home and after work I like to go home and relax. however since most of my colleagues are unmarried they like to hang out at a bar after work everyday and they even tease me if I donít join them. I like to go with them once or twice a week but not everyday. How do I stop all this teasing?
    Hello friend,

    The problem that you are facing is not a new one.The unmarried colleagues use to enjoy at bars because they don't have their family lives.Moreover,enjoying everyday at a bar is not a good habit.Since,you are married so you should contentrate on your family and enjoy with them.You can hang out with your family members and enjoy a lot with them.

    Its even better for you and your family rather than enjoying in club.So,you should feel proud that you have your family at home and show the colleagues that you enjoy life more than them and there is someone who cares for you.And within few years,your colleagues will also get married and your problem will automatically be solved.

    So,you need not worry about teasing and contentrate on your work.

    Thanks.

    Ashok.


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    Re: How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?

    hii,
    well they are the unmarried one so it is so obvious behaviour of him. but you should respect your thoughts as being a married man you are doing a right a thing. tell your colleagues about this, talk to them in a decent way that you are a family person. they should not tease you like this. and you know this that your life is much better than them and healthy, show your friends that how much proud you are being a part of beautiful family

    Goodluck

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    Re: How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?

    Hi friend

    I think when you are working in a company, you have to learn to deal with all such teasing and thus take in a jovial kind of sense. You should take such things sportingly and thus should not think about them as teasing. Now if you dont want to go out with your colleagues everyday, then its your own wish and they cant force you to do the same. But whenever they tease you , you can also crack some kind of joke related to that and thus get out of that situation.

    Dont think seriously about all this and thus try to take it in a fun kind of way. You can always tell them that you will not be able to go out with them because you have your responsibilities and thus would like to take care of them. Ofcourse you can do this once in a while and whenever they go out they can surely give you a call.If you are free you will surely join them. I am sure they will undersatnd you and thus teae you less frequently.

    I hope you get my point friend. Good luck and Thanks

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    Re: How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?

    Hello,

    It is extremely difficult to stop these practices,as the persons inolved are all grown ups.I think it will be better if you just put a deaf ear to what they have to say about you.Since you stay out of home through out the day,it is essential for you to give ome time to your wife and family after the days work,otherwise they masy feel neglected.Join these friends sometimes,but family is equally r rather more essential.So when ever you get scope try to spoend quality time with your family and wife.Dont worry much about what your friends have to say about it.

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    Re: How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?


    • The problem you are facing is this due to not giving them proper answer for their teasing.
    • When we ourself also starts entertaining them on the teasing, they becomes habitual and they always do it.
    • So, you need to give a straight answer, you can't able to come because of work.
    • And the other way is ignoring what they say, don't take their teasing on your heart, just ignore it.
    • By this, they themselves get bored and will stop doing it.

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    Re: How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?

    Hello ,
    Ignorance is BLISS is apt in this situation and Im sure your colleagues dont mean to tease you , they
    may just be having fun .
    Although you are much matured and can forget these activities . Its very nice to hear that you give
    time to your family and its a good desicion .


    • Its possible that they do all the teasing because they really want you to join them and like your company so compell you to come .
    • You can make your freinds understand that we all have different priorities in life , that you have a family that you love spending time with .
    im sure this will melt them down .
    • You should be sporty about it and take all in a funny way as they just want to spend some time with you too outside office .

    Although , you should also let your self free and go out with them once in a while to refresh you . While with them , you can suggust them how diff it is when you are at home and its not like you dont like to party , you like to be with your family...its not a compulsion .

    You and your wife can have a good time talking how you leave your colleagues to be with her , its a motvating factor and make you feel happy .

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    Re: How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?

    hello friends..

    @ suggest those employee

    @ and give a warning for those employee

    @ do not tease on colleagues

    @ that will not good for you

    @ give a action on those employee also if repeat the same thing

    @ tell to him concentrate on work only

    @ do not speak with others at the time of work

    all the best




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    Re: How do I stop teasing of colleagues after work everyday?

    The problem that you just face isn't a brand new one.The mateless colleagues use to fancy at bars as a result of they do not have their family lives.Moreover,enjoying everyday at a bar isn't an honest habit.Since,you are married therefore you must contentrate on your family and revel in with them.You can hang around along with your members of the family and revel in lots with them.

    Its even higher for you and your family instead of amusing in club.So,you should feel proud that you just have your family reception and show the colleagues that you just fancy life over them and there's somebody WHO cares for you.And at intervals few years,your colleagues also espouse and your drawback will mechanically be resolved.

    So,you need not worry regarding teasing and contentrate on your work.
    I think after you square measure operating during a company, you have got to be told to traumatize all such teasing and therefore soak up a joyous reasonably sense. you must take such things sportingly and therefore mustn't believe them as teasing. currently if you dont wish to travel out along with your colleagues everyday, then its your own would like and that they cant force you to try and do constant. however whenever they tease you , you'll additionally crack some reasonably joke associated with that and therefore get out of that scenario.

    Dont assume seriously regarding all this and therefore attempt to take it during a fun reasonably method. you'll be {able to} continuously tell them that you just won't be able to exit with them as a result of you have got your responsibilities and therefore would love to require care of them. Ofcourse you'll do that once during a whereas and whenever they're going out they will sure enough offer you a decision.If you're free you'll sure enough be part of them. i'm certain they're going to understand you and therefore tear you less oftentimes.

    It is extraordinarily tough to prevent these practices,as the persons inolved square measure all big ups.I think it'll be higher if you simply place a deaf ear to what they need to mention regarding you.Since you keep out of home through out the day,it is essential for you to allow come time to your better half and family once the times work,otherwise they may feel neglected.Join these friends generally,but family is equally r rather additional essential.So once ever you get scope attempt to spend quality time along with your family and better half.Dont worry abundant regarding what your friends have to be compelled to say regarding it.

    The problem you're facing is that this thanks to not giving them correct account their teasing.
    When we ourself additionally starts fun them on the teasing, they becomes habitual and that they continuously know.
    So, you wish to allow a straight answer, you cannot able to come back as a result of work.
    And the different method is ignoring what they assert, do not take their teasing on your heart, simply ignore it.
    By this, they themselves get bored and can stop doing it.

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