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    How to deal with stress of getting a transfer?

    am working in a software company. Recently we have a lot of transfers going on in our company. I am afraid that they may also give me a transfer. I donít know whether I will be able to adjust to the new place and live away from my home. This is giving me the jitters. How to deal with such stress?

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    aaki Array
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    Re: How to deal with stress of getting a transfer?

    Hello ,
    Firstly its completely normal to get some jitters regarding getting transferred to a different place . But it should be taken in a positive way that you get to work with a varied set of people (getting varied ideas) that gives your mind a different perpective . It enhances your personality as a person who can adjust in any place . Its a quality which every boss would like to see in his employee .
    Adding , It really builds your character as you learn who to let go of your attachments and other things which one gets used to . Staying away from home is always a difficult thing to face but once to do it it doesnt seem to be that big a deal and the experiences which you have can only be learnt that way .
    i really think you should opt for getting a transfer rather wait for it , it might just create a special image of yours and help you in the long run .
    hope it helps .

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    Madhu M Array
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    Re: How to deal with stress of getting a transfer?

    Hi friend

    You should certainly not be afraid and learn to take such things in your stride otherwise your life will become miserable if you keep on taking tension just on the possibility of something that has not yet happened. I know that when a person gets transfered he has to make many sacrifices. He has to leave his family and live separately from them. He has to adjust to the new environment of the new place and also to the different food items available at that place whether you like it or not. Thus this can lead to many health problems and thus you should be careful that you have proper health and medical facilities there. But friend you should not get disheartenned by the same and learn to deal with everything in a courageous way.

    You should always remember that Life is not a Bed of roses and thus should be ready to face any difficulty with gusto whenever it comes rather than just thinking about it before it has happened and taking unnecessary stress and tension. You may or may not be able to adjust to the new surroundings but whatever you do yous should do it courageously and should learn to face such difficulties in life.

    You should be calm and don't take any tension and be nervous. Just let it happen and then only make your plans to deal with it. If you are being transferred for a short period of time then you should not worry at all as very soon you will be out of this. But if you are being transferred for a long period then you should try and adjust and if you can't then request your manager to call you back. Also be ready to leave your job if nothing goes in your favour.

    Good luck friend. Live life to the fullest . Thanks

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    Re: How to deal with stress of getting a transfer?

    Firstly its fully traditional to urge some jitters concerning obtaining transferred to a distinct place .
    However it ought to be taken in an exceedingly positive manner that you simply get to figure with a varied set of individuals (getting varied ideas) that offers your mind a distinct perceptive . It enhances your temperament as an individual UN agency will regulate in anywhere . Its a top quality which each and every boss would really like to visualize in his worker .

    Adding , It extremely builds your character as you learn UN agency to forsaking of your attachments and alternative things that one gets wont to . Staying removed from house is continuously a troublesome issue to face however once to try to to it it does not appear to be that huge a deal and therefore the experiences that you have got will solely be learn that manner .
    I actually assume you ought to decide on obtaining a transfer rather sit up for it , it would simply produce a special image of yours and assist you within the long-term .

    You should in no way be afraid and learn to require such things in your stride otherwise your life can become miserable if you retain on taking tension simply on the chance of one thing that has not nonetheless happened. i do know that once an individual gets transfered he has got to build several sacrifices. He has got to leave his family and live on an individual basis from them. He has got to comply with the new atmosphere of the new place and conjointly to the various food things offered at that place whether or not you prefer it or not. so this may cause several health issues and so you ought to use caution that you simply have correct health and medical facilities there. however friend you ought to not get disheartenned by identical and learn to take care of everything in an exceedingly valiant manner.

    You continuously keep in mind that Life isn't a Bed of roses and so should be able to face any issue with enthusiasm whenever it comes instead of simply brooding about it before it's happened and taking unessential stress and tension. you will or might not be ready to comply with the new surroundings however no matter you are doing yous ought to couple bravely and will learn to face such difficulties in life.

    You ought to be calm and do not take any tension and be nervous. simply let it happen so solely build your plans to take care of it. If you're being transferred for a brief amount of your time then you ought to not worry in the least as terribly before long you'll be out of this. however if you're being transferred for a protracted amount then you ought to try to regulate and if you cannot then request your manager to decision you back. even be able to leave your job if nothing goes in your favour.

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    omprakash_dhaker Array
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    Re: How to deal with stress of getting a transfer?

    You can handle the stress of transfer in following ways-

    1 Try to find out attractive places in new city where you have been transferred.As you are facing stress so visiting these places with family can reduce a lot of stress

    2 Find out the detail of employee who are working at new place so that in office you will not face a lot of problems.

    3 Try to be friend with other employees

    4 On Sunday or on any holiday go outside your home with family.

    5 Spend more time with your Bose so that he will tell about the working environment of your office.

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