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    How to deal with cousins at work place?

    I and my first cousin work in the same office but in different departments. We donít meet often by whenever we meet at lunchtime or during tea breaks she acts very stiff and cool towards me. I want to ask her why she behaves like this but I am afraid it might spoil our relations. What do I do?

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    Madhu M Array
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    Re: How to deal with cousins at work place?

    Hi..I think you should tell your cousin what is in your mind and not try to hide your feelings..I think its certainly better to be honest about your feelings then try to maintain a fake relationship which is forced..Ofcourse i can understand your viewpoint..Everyone loves their cousins and want to be on good terms with them..But its your not fault that your cousin is behaving in such a way with you for a reason best known to her..From your side your heart is clean so you should not worry about anything..

    Next time your cousin behaves with you in a stiff manner you should ask her politely that has there been any mistake from your side that she is behaving with you in such a way..Ask very politely and i dont think that will affect your relationship..I am sure if she cares about you genuinely she will tell you the reason why she is off with you ..So you try to make amendments with her by saying sorry if the fault is really yours and try to make her happy by giving her a treat or something..But if the fault is not yours you try to clear the matter with her and hopefully you both will be on good terms from then onwards..

    Hoping you both get on good terms soon as our couzsins are certainly an important part of our lives..God Bless

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