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    How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?

    I am an employee in a software company. I am not old employee but got promotion due to good performance of mine. Due to this,some colleagues are getting jealous with me and not cooperating with me. How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?

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    Re: How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?

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    I am an employee in a software company. I am not old employee but got promotion due to good performance of mine. Due to this,some colleagues are getting jealous with me and not cooperating with me. How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is quite natural to be jealous in your case for some people,because you have got promotion on the basis of performance & not on the basis of seniority.You should have patience & try to neutralize the feeling with your kind & cooperative behaviour.You can arrange a refreshment party for your colleagues & say thanks to them for cooperation by which you have given good performance in the company.Also assure them for your kind cooperation in case of need.

    Secondly,you should not bother for these things.You should concentrate on your work performance.It will pay to you more.People don't want to labour hard & at the same time,they don't digest the success of others.

    So go forward with high aim.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?

    Hi,

    Congratulations first of all for getting promotion at a very early stage.
    The promotion is for the hard and smart working employee.
    There is no new and old employee in this matter.
    Only the deserving employee gets promoted.

    You have received promotion that means it is due to your capabilities and skills.
    Do not worry if they do not talk to you.
    You should not feel bad about rather enjoy your position.

    You should act humorous towards those employees.
    This will make your work easy and make you feel good about yourself.
    You keep focusing on your work.
    Do not indulge in such worries, they are just to distract you.

    Once you start behaving calm and cool to those people.
    Everything will be fine.
    They will behave properly with you.
    They will realise their mistake if you do not get angry or worried.
    Just stay cool and work smart.

    All the best

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    Hi Dear, We are living in an era where there is immense pressure to succeed and when you are achieving success at work place, you are tend to face cold waves from your colleagues. In addition, a positive approach is the only way to rise above these negative vibes of your colleagues. So, keep performing and maintain your focus on showcasing your achievements and highlighting your priorities instead of indulging in negative propaganda. Be good to your colleagues and continue with your good work. These petty talks and sarcastic behaviour of your colleagues would not last long. Thanks.

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    Insecurity is the main cause of concern for people who are jealous of you its not their bad nature but they are not content with the habits and nature of mentality that they see others success.. Greatness of a person is that when he accepts others hard work and others greatness. But there are few people who encourage our good work .. Jealous nature will also destroy feelings and breaks relationships also. When your given promotion based upon your talent and hard work some people will not digest them you cannot do anything to pacify them because they cannot accept a junior of them getting promoted leaving the senior behind.. Well its not government organisation to decide promotions on seniority basis.. In private sector or an company there is always performance appraisal for proving your self and getting your self promoted in the job you do.. But you should always stay low at profile even your getting praise from management don't try to project at your colleagues instead be happy from inside share it to your loved ones.. Jealousy nature of colleagues will be tough to fight its better you stay away from them instead avoid talking on your success always respect them and don't even try to act in higher position because when your right also people who cannot see you will find faults in you and will report bad about you.. The most important thing is people will spread rumors about your working style they tend to create disturbances sometimes you will be frustrated at one point of time that you will be saying why did i get promotion.. In this case you should never allow the negativity its difficult to work with unfriendly people but you should pick up good friends try to share your feelings with them don't try to prove a point about your skills jealous people will feel that your getting over confident about yourself,over valuing than your deserve..the important factor not all are jealous it depends on mindset of people ... All the best

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    Re: How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?

    On each job, there are those who are jealous of you. maybe it's your boss or somebody else in your company that has the jealous feelings that you just are experiencing. Jealousy will cause you to feel down regarding yourself and it's necessary to envision why you're feeling this fashion.

    Never accuse yourself of getting wrong feelings as a result of you'll usually desire you're standing alone once somebody is jealous against you. it's necessary to look at your own conscience and judge if you're over acting or if you've got a legitimate claim. Your colleague could also be jealous of you as a result of you offer your work environement additional business and you will be staring at a pay raise or promotion quicker than anyone else in your company. If you've got somebody that's jealous of you at work, then apprehend that you just do the correct factor and your colleague is doing the incorrect factor. individuals will solely be jealous of you if you are doing the correct factor most of the time and if you're sensible at what you are doing.


    Jealous individuals at work could look into you with associate degree looking or simply act nasty after you go around them. this is often quite common and standard in today's society. Some individuals simply wish to act like they apprehend everything which they're so those that show happiness to the complete world. In fact, these individuals really want to require a mirror and appearance at themselves in it to envision that they're not pretty much as good as they assume.

    In order to defeat a jealous colleague, you've got to create them feel sensible regarding themselves initial. Jealousy is sparked by somebody that feels as if they're below you or that others don't see them pretty much as good as you. Jealous is sometimes sparked once somebody does not get their own approach or once they don't get recognized by others UN agency are around them. A jealous person could desire everybody around likes you and not them. they're sometimes individuals with low self-worth and a full heap of inner anger. These are those that you will wish to observe out for as a result of they'll very upset you. it's necessary to know that you just need to create one amongst these insecure individuals feel sensible regarding themsleves. after you do this, you've got helped them to raised understand themselves and therefore the undeniable fact that you're not dead set create them look unhealthy.

    Jealous individuals sometimes have the habit of wanting everybody to seem at them with a similar respect that they provide to you. However, respect is given with time and with data. you're sensible at what you are doing as a result of you set the time into your job to create one thing happen. it's not your fault that you just are sensible at what you are doing and you ought to ne'er feel pitying that. succeeding time that you just confront jealousy at work, . typically after you lend your words or give to somebody else, it permits them to induce through a number of their own insecurities.

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    Re: How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?

    It is pure to be envious on your behalf for many,due to the fact you've gotten marketing on such basis as operation & definitely not on such basis as seniority.You ought to have patience & aim to reduce the effects of the feeling with the sort & supportive behaviour.You could organize any refreshment party on your co-workers & claim because of them regarding cooperation by means of that you've got offered very good operation from the company.Also assure them on your sort cooperation regarding need.

    Next,you shouldn't take the time because of things.You ought to focus on your projects performance.It are going to pay back more.People wouldn't like to labour very difficult & at the same time,they don't really break up the prosperity of others.
    Low self-esteem is the main cause of concern regarding individuals who are envious of yourself it isn't its bad characteristics although they're not articles with the practices plus characteristics with attitude they discover others success.. Cool temperature with a person is this when he takes others efforts as well as others greatness. Although within the inland northwest those who promote our own good work .Jealous characteristics will even ruin inner thoughts plus fails relationships also. Whenever your offered marketing based upon your expertise and hard do the job some individuals won't break up them a person can't do anything to pacify them simply because they won't be able to accept a younger of which having marketed leaving behind the elderly behind.. Very well it isn't govt organisation to choose deals for seniority basis.. Inside confidential area or perhaps company there's always operation assessment regarding appearing all by yourself and receiving all by yourself marketed from the task a person do.
    Although always keep minimal on shape perhaps your having reward from control don't try to job your co-workers as a substitute be happy from inside share that on your beloved ones.. Envy characteristics with co-workers will likely be not easy to battle their much better a person stay away from them as a substitute keep away from chatting for business energy continually esteem them and don't perhaps look at to act inside bigger place due to the fact whenever your right additionally those who won't be able to discover you will find problems inside you and is going to document bad pertaining to you.. It is essential is men and women will multiply rumors regarding your doing the job design and style they have an inclination to develop trouble what happens if you be aggravated on some time of your energy you happen to be expressing the key reason why did i receive promotion.

    In this situation you should never enable the mental poison their hard to do business with unfavorable individuals but the truth is ought to get best friends look at to share with you all your other worries with him or her don't try to confirm a place pertaining to your talent envious men and women will feel that a going through self-assured with regards to you,over pricing up than your should have the main issue not all of them envious that relies on way of thinking of folks.

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    Re: How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?

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    I am an employee in a software company. I am not old employee but got promotion due to good performance of mine. Due to this,some colleagues are getting jealous with me and not cooperating with me. How to combat the jealousness of colleagues?
    Hi Dear, We are living in an era where there is immense pressure to succeed and when you are achieving success at work place, you are tend to face cold waves from your colleagues. In addition, a positive approach is the only way to rise above these negative vibes of your colleagues. So, keep performing and maintain your focus on showcasing your achievements and highlighting your priorities instead of indulging in negative propaganda. Be good to your colleagues and continue with your good work. These petty talks and sarcastic behaviour of your colleagues would not last long. Thanks.

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