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    How to balance the Appreciation at the same time criticism? Things to take care of to attain such type of balanced understanding?

    I am really bad in balancing between appreciation and criticism, whenever I get criticism I use to sit in one corner and think think about it till the end which makes me to waste the entire day. So can you tell me or help me out how to balance between Appreciation and Criticism? What all things I should take care of to have the balanced understanding?

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    prabhu Array
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    Hi ,

    Taking criticism in a constructive way is obviously difficult . You have to change your perception first of this to have a balance between criticism and appreciation .

    1. Control your anger.If you control your anger you would get a good impression on your critic.

    2. Take it positive . People may throw stones at you .Its upto you to build building with that stone nor allow it to hurt you.

    3.Concentrate on the areas which need improvement.Take criticism an opportunity to learn things better than you learnt before.

    Alter your attitude and you can alter your life
    Thanks !!!

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    Re: How to balance the Appreciation at the same time criticism? Things to take care of to attain such type of balanced understanding?

    I would like to inform you that, if people starts criticizing you, then you can believe that you are very near to your goal and success. Criticizing guys are jealous of the successful person, They want to demoralize you, which ids happening with you. Please do not listen to them as they do not want you to be successful one. I strongly suggest you to please avoid focusing on all this and think about your people, and join the guys that appreciate your work and skills.The best think is to keep busy yourself, so you don't have any time to think about those things.

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    Re: How to balance the Appreciation at the same time criticism? Things to take care of to attain such type of balanced understanding?

    Hi aspirant

    You should certainly try to balance both criticism and appreciation in life and then only you will be highly successful. Dont take success to your head and dont take criticism too lightly. Some people have the habit of worrying too much when they are criticised like thinking about what will happent to their future etc but certainly this is not a good habit and you should try to improve upon it.

    Whenever you are criticised always take it as a challenge that the next time you are going to do that particular thing in the right manner and thus will overcome your shortcomings. So dont keep on thinking about it and take it as a challenge.Always try to take everything in a positive sense and dont only think negative about each and everything. Positive approach towards life will certainly help you a lot in developing balanced understanding. Think rationally with a positive frame of mind.

    And also never take appreciation or success to your head that you become over confident and thus may not perform to your best the next time. Always see success as a landmark and thus try to better your previous best the next time. In this way you will improve everytime and thus are surely going to have a bright future.

    So friend certainly having balanced understanding is mandatory and as you know "Excess of anything is bad". So follow my points and i hope you improve a lot in your balanced approach..Good luck aspirant

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