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    The government hospital nurses not taking a liking to me

    I am a doctor by profession. Recently I have joined a government hospital. On my second day itself I reprimanded one of the nurses due to her misbehaviour with a patient. Since then most of the nurses of the hospital are against me and are not taking a liking to me. How to deal with such a situation?

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    Re: The government hospital nurses not taking a liking to me

    Hello..

    Nurses are not liking you !! Friend if you are a doctor and you reprimanded one of them because she misbehaved with a patient , then you didn't do anything wrong and if they are not supporting you first think that it is only reason? If yes then you should talk to them and you are senior doctor you can do that in limit, but as good human being you should talk with them about this matter and try to solve this issue make them understand that why you behaved like that and how they should behave with their patient. Talk and then you can solve this issue.

    thanks.

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    Hi aspirant

    You should try to handle this situation with care as you need the support of your nurses if you want to have a good time in this hospital. You can't just continue like this. You should try to solve this matter amicably even if it means that you would have to apologize to the nurses. You should not think that it is beneath your dignity and should know that you need the full support of your staff in order to give a proper treatment to your patients.

    AS your patients matter to you more than anything, you should be ready to do anything to solve this matter. Firstly you should go and talk to the Head nurse. Tell her that you have been noticing that all the nurses in the hospital are giving you a cold shoulder as you reprimanded one of them for her mistake. You are really sorry if you have the sentiments of anyone and are even ready to apologize to that nurse for your mistake. You hope that they will be on friendly terms with you in the future.

    I am sure that the head nurse will understand your point and then your problem will be solved. Even if she tells you to apologize, you should do that.Good luck

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    Re: The government hospital nurses not taking a liking to me

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am a doctor by profession. Recently I have joined a government hospital. On my second day itself I reprimanded one of the nurses due to her misbehaviour with a patient. Since then most of the nurses of the hospital are against me and are not taking a liking to me. How to deal with such a situation?
    Hello Aspirant,

    Need not worry for this situation.Human beings are eager for love & affection.People like those who speaks sweetly & politely & to a person who supports in every situation.

    Your problem is temporary & it will be solved very shortly.You should call a meeting of all the concerned nurses & try to discuss the situations.Also You should try to discuss on the subject of the responsibility of nurses & doctors towards patients.Because the patients are not well,they are in problems with health & injury,so they are required care & treatment with love,affection & condolence.If we behave rudely with patients,the complaint will go the superintendent & to higher official even to minister & severe action may be taken against the concerned one.What I have have done for your sake & if you don't want me to interfere in such matter,I won't do it,but the matter may go to higher official & at that time I won't be able to help or protect you.So tell me what you want from me.

    Or you can convey your message to the head nurse to convey the same to the concerned nurse.

    Hope your problem will be solved soon.

    Good luck.


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    Dear,
    I think that you have done something wrong, if you have the nurse is not behaving properly then you should have ask her to be polite with the patients, instead of scolding her.
    Listen every one has some self-respect and you have hurt the self respect of that nurse by misbehaving with her in front of all the staff.
    The best option would have been,that you have called her in your office and made her understand not to be rude with the patient,then she and other nurses won't be disliking you.
    Now please ask sorry from the nurse and tell her that your approach wasn't good.

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    Dear doctor now it is your duty to control all staff of your section so now you call all of the nurse staff politely as your own sister.And told them about your duties toward the patient.If we behave with them rudely then nobody will give coopetration in future.Today what we will create that will last long.One day you are to go through old age we are to get admit here.If we establish a good environment among the Doctor/Sister/Patient in reality all will follow us.And gradually this remark by the public (government hospital nurses not taking due care)will be withdrawn, instead they will tell Govt.Hospital is better than PVT.

    Thank You,

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    Re: The government hospital nurses not taking a liking to me

    Hello,

    You should not bother about such incident. You did what is best for the hospital. Providing
    service in the healthcare arena is avery noble profession but unfortunately many people tend
    to misbehave to their patients. You should be proud of yourself and should focus on your work
    and not such trivial issue. If you perform your duty with care and dedication then nothing will
    ever happen to you.

    Bye,

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    Re: The government hospital nurses not taking a liking to me

    Sir be yourself its important that you concentrate on patients health and make them recover very fast and improve their health.. If the nurse doesn't discharge their duty then they should be punished as they are paid for their duty they are not doing service for free of cost they should know it better... Don't care whether nurses are liking you or not its very important that you should be able to make them respect your words and discharge their duties as said thats it...

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    Re: The government hospital nurses not taking a liking to me

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am a doctor by profession. Recently I have joined a government hospital. On my second day itself I reprimanded one of the nurses due to her misbehaviour with a patient. Since then most of the nurses of the hospital are against me and are not taking a liking to me. How to deal with such a situation?
    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I will be joining in the Software firm in a two months or so as a fresher, so before that I need to know what are the steps I can take to make myself prepared for everything? Can you please give me more insight on this by sharing your experience when you initially joined in company? What is required for a fresher before entering into the professional career?
    Hello Friend......


    Nurses are not liking you !! Friend if you are a doctor and you reprimanded one of them because she misbehaved with a patient , then you didn't do anything wrong and if they are not supporting you first think that it is only reason? If yes then you should talk to them and you are senior doctor you can do that in limit, but as good human being you should talk with them about this matter and try to solve this issue make them understand that why you behaved like that and how they should behave with their patient. Talk and then you can solve this issue.

    Hope my suggestion will help you....
    Best of luck.....
    With regards from you@...
    .

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    Re: The government hospital nurses not taking a liking to me

    Do not need to be concerned because of this situation.Human creatures tend to be anticipating adore & affection.People including those that speaks gently & without sounding rude & in order to an individual who facilitates in just about every situation.

    Your trouble is actually momentary & it will likely be sorted extremely shortly.You ought to contact a meeting with all the different troubled nurses & try to go over this situations.Also Gradually alter go over upon the main topics the responsibility of nurses & physicians to patients.Because this individuals will not be perfectly,these are in problems with well being & damage,thus these are essential treatment & therapy by using adore,devotion & condolence.If many of us act rudely by using individuals,this criticism is going this superintendent & to increase formal even going to minister & intense actions might be taken against the troubled one.What I've got have done to your sake & unless you wish my family in order to obstruct in such topic,I will not practice it,nevertheless the difficulty might have to go to increase formal & then I can't assist and also safeguard you.So inform me what you wish via me.

    Gradually alter handle it with care because you require this assist of this nurses if you wish to enjoy within this hospital. You cannot just carry on including this. Gradually alter clear up this particular topic amicably and sometimes it means in which you should apologize to the nurses. You should not imagine it is through your self-respect and ought to realize which you are required the complete assist of this employees in order to offer a suitable therapy for your patients.

    AS your current individuals topic to your account more than anything, you should anticipate to do just about anything to resolve this particular matter. For starters people moves plus communicate to the Mind nurse. Let her know in which you have been spotting that each this nurses inside the medical tend to be offering you a chilly shoulder as you penalized one too on her behalf mistake. Anyone really are i am sorry chance . sentiments connected with any person and are generally possibly wanting to apologize to this registered nurse to your mistake. Anyone desire in which they'll be upon favorable words on hand inside the future.

    I know which the mind registered nurse will probably understand your current point and after that your short lived problem will likely be solved. Regardless of whether she informs you in order to apologize, you should do that.
    You should not stress about these incident. That you did just what exactly is best for this hospital. Providing
    support inside the medical care arena is actually a very altesse job however many people tend
    in order to misbehave to their patients. You should be proud of on your own and ought to focus on your projects
    and not these trivial issue. If you conduct your current accountability with care plus perseverance next there is little
    possibly get lucky and you.

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