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    Getting in a serious relationship with the employer’s daughter

    I am working in a software company in Delhi. Our employer is a very kind hearted person but he is very possessive about his daughter. His daughter and I have been seeing each other for the past 1 month without his knowledge of the same.Now I am very serious about her. But I am afraid of mentioning this to my employer. Please suggest the best method to deal with this situation.

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    Re: Getting in a serious relationship with the employer’s daughter

    You must be very thankful to your employer first for employing you. You know he is very possessive about his daughter,its common for all fathers in the world..as parent he has many plans about well being of his daughter.. So you should inform him about this matter immediately to your employer without being afraid... If he is ready to give his approval for marriage of you two go ahead be happy.. The problem comes when he rejects your proposal,its better you know your employer first about his plans towards his daughter indirectly..if he has some choices about daughter then you should take step backward.. Because your career is your concern.. Only parents are the only persons in the world who really care for children

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    Hi friend

    I know this is a very tricky situation for you as have to choose between your love and your professional life. But ofcourse you would be hoping that you get both if your employer doesn't mind you dating his daughter. Now for this to happen , first off all you should have the guts to speak to him and tell him the truth about your relationship with his daughter. It doesn't matter whether he will reject it or accept it but first you should have the guts to mention this to him.

    Now friend, you should realise that you have no other choice except to tell him the truth. You should fight for your love and should deal with this situation in a courageous manner. Fear is going to take you nowhere and will rather make things worse for you. So you should give it some thought and then only take a decision. Anways, if you don't admit your relationship now, you will have to admit it to your boss sometimes or the other if you want to marry her daughter. Now as you are very serious about her you should forget your boss's possession about her and be confident in your aproach. If you be nervous , then it will create even more problems for you as you would not be able to express your feelings in the right manner.

    So you should go to your boss and talk to him. You should go to his house and speak personally to him. Tell him that you are here to tell him something. You and his daughter have been seeing each other for the past 1 month and you both are very serious about his daughter. You are here to take his blessings as you want to marry her daughter and take her to your home. You hope he will try to understand your feelings and will accept your relationship.

    I hope, for your sake, that your boss reacts in a positive manner and thus hopefully will give his daughter's hand to you. But in case he gets angry and asks you to get out instantly, you should not get afarid and try to calm him down. Tell him that you promise him that you will alaways keep his daughter happy and will never give her any reason of complain.He can ask her too and she would tell him the same that how much you both love each other.

    I am sure that in the end, your boss will have to agree and accept your relationship with his daughter. I am sure God will also help you in this as your love is true and you surely will keep her happy.

    Wishing you all the luck and happiness in life. God Bless

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    Re: Getting in a serious relationship with the employer’s daughter

    Hello,

    You have mentioned that your boss is a kind hearted person. The best thing would be to tell him
    that you love his daughter and want to marry her. If he does not accept it then quit your current
    job and find another one. Love is a very rare thing now a days so don't loose her. I believe if you
    are honest enough you can certainly convince your boss. Best of luck to you.

    Bye,

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    Re: Getting in a serious relationship with the employer’s daughter

    Dear there is not a long time has been passed away of your serious relationship and i would like to say that before telling about your relationship to everyone you should keep it confidential for more time and wait for at least 5-6 months because the relationship which you are talking about is not easy to make in the life because this is the question of your entire life and when you are serious about your current relationship then you should also need to be serious about your life and before that you should examine the daughter of your employer, i know that it would not be good but you should try to check her at every single situation that how much she is dedicated for you and what can she contribute for you and your happiness and if you find her well at every single situation then you need to proceed further

    You should ask her to express about your relationship from her daughter because if you directly will go to your boss then it may affect your image in the office premises and to make your image very good in the company you need to work hard for office and try to achieve some new goals and try to provide profit as much as possible to the company and when you come to the post of assistant manager in your company then you should ask your beloved to tell everything to their parents about your closing relationship and i am sure that if your boss is really a kind hearted person then they will definitely accept the argument of your beloved and will ready to talk to you

    Before they call you for talking about the relation you need to tell everything to your family but only after the acceptation of your boss and make your family ready about the relationship then start the journey

    All the best


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    Re: Getting in a serious relationship with the employer’s daughter

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a software company in Delhi. Our employer is a very kind hearted person but he is very possessive about his daughter. His daughter and I have been seeing each other for the past 1 month without his knowledge of the same.Now I am very serious about her. But I am afraid of mentioning this to my employer. Please suggest the best method to deal with this situation.
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is rarely happens in life when one falls in love with the employer's daughter.The positive point is that both of you are liking each other.In order to be yourself in safe side,you should motivate her to keep the proposal of marriage before her father.First she should get an openion about you from her father &if she finds the good openion,let her propose for her marriage with you.Let us see the result.If it is positive,then it is alright otherwise it would be better to end the matter here itself for your good sake.

    Later the openion of your employer may be changed for marriage.

    Thanks & good luck.

    Ashok..

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    Re: Getting in a serious relationship with the employer’s daughter

    hello,
    first make this thing clear that is his daughter interested in you or not.
    if she is also very much interested in you than i think you should approach your employee as soon as possible.
    because if this news reaches him indirectly then you will e in trouble. so to have bright future, i think you should approach him and try to have great future.
    best of luck

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    Re: Getting in a serious relationship with the employer’s daughter

    I know this can be a awfully difficult scenario for you as ought to make a choice from your love and your business life. however ofcourse you'd be hoping that you just get each if your leader does not mind you chemical analysis his female offspring. currently for this to happen , firstly all you ought to have the center to talk to him and tell him the reality concerning your relationship together with his female offspring. It does not matter whether or not he can reject it or settle for it however 1st you ought to have the center to say this to him.

    Now friend, you ought to realise that you just don't have any different selection except to inform him the reality. you ought to fight for your love and may affect this case in a very mettlesome manner. concern goes to require you obscurity and can rather build things worse for you. therefore you ought to provides it some thought then solely take a choice. Anways, if you do not admit your relationship currently, you'll ought to admit it to your boss generally or the opposite if you would like to marry her female offspring.

    Currently as you're terribly serious concerning her you ought to forget your boss's possession concerning her and be assured in your aproach. If you be nervous , then it'll produce even additional issues for you as you'd not be able to specific your feelings within the right manner.

    Therefore you ought to head to your boss and refer to him. you ought to head to his house and speak in person to him. Tell him that you just ar here to inform him one thing. You and his female offspring are seeing one another for the past one month and you each ar terribly serious concerning his female offspring. you're here to require his blessings as you would like to marry her female offspring and take her to your home. You hope he can attempt to perceive your feelings and can settle for your relationship.

    I hope, for your sake, that your boss reacts in a very positive manner and so hopefully can provide his daughter's hand to you. however just in case he gets angry and asks you to induce out instantly, you ought to not get afarid and take a look at to calm him down. Tell him that you just promise him that you just can alaways keep his female offspring happy and can ne'er provide her any reason of complain.He will raise her too and he or she would tell him an equivalent that what proportion you each love one another.
    Dear there's not a protracted time has been passed on to the great beyond of your serious relationship and that i would love to mention that before telling concerning your relationship to everybody ought to keep it confidential for longer and stay up for a minimum of 5-6 months as a result of the connection that talking concerning isn't straightforward to create within the life as a result of this can be the question of your entire life and after you are serious concerning your current relationship then you ought to conjointly ought to be serious concerning your life and before that you just should examine the female offspring of your leader, i do know that it'd not be smart however you ought to attempt to check her at each single scenario that what proportion she is devoted for you and what will she contribute for you and your happiness and if you discover her well at each single scenario then you wish to proceed any

    You ought to raise her to precise concerning your relationship from her female offspring as a result of if you directly can head to your boss then it's going to have an effect on your image within the workplace premises and to create your image excellent within the company you wish to figure onerous for workplace and take a look at to realize some new goals and take a look at to supply profit the maximum amount as potential to the corporate and after you return to the post of assistant manager in your company then you ought to raise your loved one to inform everything to their folks concerning your closing relationship and that i am certain that if your boss is absolutely a sort hearted person then they're going to undoubtedly settle for the argument of your loved one and can able to refer to you.

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