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    Feeling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    I am working in a government organisation. Since I joined this place a few months ago, a lot of my colleagues have been referring to me as ugly because I am not that good looking. I think such kind of behaviour is not acceptable and I am very hurt right now. What can be done in such a situation?

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    Re: Feeling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    Hello,

    Beauty is a matter of luck. We have no control in beauty or wealth. Life is a
    matter of chance and we have to accept it. You should not feel hurt as your
    collegue did not do it on purpose. But still remark like this can create a very
    bad feeling. You should not be proud of your beauty rather you sgould be
    proud of your work, honesty and other qualities. You shoild learn to ignore
    people and comments like this .

    Bye,

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    Re: Feeling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    I am very sad to listen that, but what is the use of that do nt take those things by heart as you said that you are not good looking, it means that you also know the truth then why you are feeling hurt for that, if somebody says you like that then you need to give him the reply that yes iam ugly , do you have any problem with that, if you have then tell me , if you give the naswers like this then nobody will dare to speak with you like that but if you feel those words and take those things then you are helpless as this is not the solution of the problem, try to finish the problem then and the if you finish the problem then you will feel good from inside.
    Well you should not take the things like things like this as because it is painful either.

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    Re: Feeling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    Hey
    You should not be worry about the way you look at your workplace. If you think that they are making fun of you then you should take it up as a challenge and then you should work more dedicated in the office and prove your bosses that youíre the best.
    Then when you will get the best employee award, then all those people would be very jealous of you and it will be like a tight slap on their face.
    Gud luck

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    Re: Feeling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    Hi Dear,

    First of all, do not get hurt for such small things in life. Looks can charm people only for a shorter period of time; however, your work and attitude helps to earn you a permanent and long lasting popularity and love.

    Do not react to the foolish comments of your colleagues; rather be cool and friendly towards them, and try to make your mark amongst them with the help of your work. Good work gives you more confidence than good looks.

    If your colleagues continue with their foolish attitude, then please take this matter to a higher management and the HR.

    Thanks,
    Ritz

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    Re: Feeling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    dear aspirant,
    at the very beginning i would like to tell u that a book cannot be judged by its cover......its what you think yourself to be not what others think that matters....your work will show who you are....being hurt is not the solution reply them back but not with words but with your work.....there must be more important matters for you to deal with than worrying about their comments....hope this was of some help to you.....

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    Re: Feeling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    We're incredibly depressing to listen that, although it is possible to usage of that do nt take them by heart because you explained that you are not beautiful, them shows that you also have in mind the simple fact in that case your purpose in emotion harmed for that, when someone affirms you this way you will need to help supply him with this solution that sure i am unsightly , have you got any issue start, for those who have in that case figure out , in the event you provide answers similar to this in that case not anyone will are brave enough to dicuss together with you this way although if you believe those thoughts and take them you happen to be helpless when this is simply not the most effective of your challenge, attempt to finish the challenge in that case as well as the when a person finishes the challenge you will feel much better from inside.
    Nicely you should not use the things like points similar to this when as it would be distressing either.
    Splendor is usually to do with luck. We've zero control in beauty and also wealth. Life is a matter with opportunity and we need to acknowledge it. It's not necessary to really feel harmed since your colleague wouldn't apply it about purpose. Nevertheless memoir similar to this can certainly create a very bad feeling. It's not necessary to are proud of ones beauty somewhat you need to are proud of work, trustworthiness along with qualities. An individual should discover how to neglect folks and reviews similar to this.
    are rarely getting harmed to get these kinds of tiny points in life. Appears might allure folks only reserved for some sort of shorter time period; even so, work and attitude helps to get you an enduring and longer lasting level of popularity and love.

    Usually do not respond on the foolish reviews of one's fellow workers; elect to go interesting and welcoming on the way to them, trying to build your mark amidst them with the aid of ones work. Great work gives you a lot more self confidence than great looks.

    If your fellow workers continue its foolish attitude, in that case make sure you take this subject into a bigger operations as well as the HR

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    Re: Feeling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    Dear friend
    Human beings should have minimum common sense otherwise they may not be called as human beings. Very sad to note your situation. please dont be hurt be patient and do work with at most perfection.You would certainly get the positive attitude from them and ultimately you will grow and shine and you would be there No.1 among all.In the Holy Bible the two verses were written which may help you. please read in the book of Proverbs 12:16 ĖA fool shows his annoyance at once, but a prudent man overlooks an insult and also Proverbs 19:11 ĖSmart people are patient; they will be honored if they ignore insult.Hope these verses will give you courage and strength to over come this type of situations around you. Dont forget that God is there and seeing all the hidden things.He will act against them one day and the people who are insulting you around will get repentance about the mistaken what they did. Be strong in mind. May god bless u

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    Re: Felling very hurt as some of my colleagues call me ugly as I am not good looking

    Hi friend,

    I think you should not be worry about the way you look at your workplace.
    If you think that they are making fun of you then you should take it up as a challenge and then you should work more dedicated in the office and prove your bosses that youíre the best.
    Then when you will get the best employee award,
    Then all those people would be very jealous of you and it will be like a tight slap on their face.

    Thanks!!!
    all the best................

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