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    Feel under confident when my colleagues talk about their children because my son is unable to speak

    My son was born with a defect that he was unable to speak. This bothers me a lot when the colleagues discuss about their children. This prevents me from interacting with my colleagues a lot. Please suggest how to overcome this and not let it hinder my career.

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    Ritz Array
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    Re: Feel under confident when my colleagues talk about their children because my son is unable to speak

    Hi, First of all learn to accept the truth because when one resolves to adhere to truth, he/she gets an immense satisfaction. This satisfaction in return strengthens the resolve and enhance the faith towards pursuit of truth. So, friend, do not feel shy or ashamed about you son rather accept him the way he has been gifted to you by God. In fact, work place is not the right place to flaunt your personal life or talk about your children but people do discuss such issues in get together and casual meetings. So, do not take such things to your heart and get disturbed with such issues. Also, do not develop any sort of hatred or malice towards your colleagues, rather take their kids as your kids and enjoy the talk about those kids as well. This will help you spread positive vibes and positive approach is the only way to overcome inhibitions and barriers in mind. Moreover, focus on your work instead of getting involved in any negative propaganda and toil hard to give the best to yourself and your sweet little family. Thanks

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    Re: Feel under confident when my colleagues talk about their children because my son is unable to speak

    Hi Sir,

    >>>As this is natural you don't have any control over it

    >>>So why are you under confident in this case

    >>>Never demoralize your child and try to find out in which field he is interested and train them accordingly

    >>>So that you can also show off in front of you colleagues

    >>>Here show off is not the punch point this will give good career to your son so that you can feel proud to be a father

    >>>Never hesitate when your colleagues talks about their children as every children have different qualities

    >>>So face them confident, never feel shame

    >>>Hope so this information helps you

    Thank You

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    Re: Feel under confident when my colleagues talk about their children because my son is unable to speak

    first of all that let me tell you that your son is not only in the who is suffering from this type of problem . many of the persons are suffering from the similar disease and they lived very naturally because it is not your fault it's a natural disease. now what you have to do is that first of all avoid these types of gossiping when you are setting with your colleagues as far as possible and if you are setting with your colleague and if they are talking on this matter then just listen but don't think about

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    Re: Feel under confident when my colleagues talk about their children because my son is unable to speak

    Hello,

    Well, you have no control over such unfortunate event. Life is a matter of chance. You have to accept it sooner or later for the sake of your child. At office people say a lot about their child and if it makes you sad then you don't have to join them. Not many people will uderstand your pain. But for God's sake don't demorolize yourself or your child. It would be much better for you if you open up your mind. In this way you will be able to share many unknown stories about your kid to your colleagues.

    Time is a great healer and you have to move forward otherwise you will not be able to survive. There are many new mtechniques are bring applied by doctors to people like your child you should talk to them.

    Bye,

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