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    Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    I just lost a close family member last month and I took a long leave for that. I have a lot of work to cover up and have another emergency to attend next week. My boss is very inconsiderate. I just joined this job and I donít want to lose it. Please suggest what can be done by me in this situation.

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    Hi, It is truly saddening to hear about the loss in your family. However, dear it's the rule of nature that we have to move ahead in life and work as per our priorities in life. As of now, I feel that you have already visited your family during an emergency hour. I also understand that another situation which is on the threshold must also be a very urgent one, but my friend, our life asks us to sacrifice a few things if we desire to get success in life. I know that your job might not immediately take you to the peak of success but it definitely is a ladder to success in your life. So, dear you would have to make a choice and also convince your family members about not attending the other emergency in the coming week, rather get back to work and start working normally. I am sure, you family would understand your situation and also guide you to the right path. Take care and be strong to handle this situation in life. Thanks.

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    Hello,


    I can understand ypur position. It is very difficult when you loose someone. But you have to keep up yourself. Time will heal everything so have patience my friend. If you want to save your job then you have no other alternatives but to join your company. It is very unfortunate that your boss is not ready to lsiten to your problem in a situation like this. You are a new comer to this job so if you are not being able to join then your work will be hampered. This can bring curtain to your present job. So wahtever may be the situation you should join your office and talk to your boss about the present siatuation.

    Bye,

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I just lost a close family member last month and I took a long leave for that. I have a lot of work to cover up and have another emergency to attend next week. My boss is very inconsiderate. I just joined this job and I donít want to lose it. Please suggest what can be done by me in this situation.
    Dear Aspirant,

    Yes,a man is surrounded by many problems & situations,but being a human,we have to manage them as far as possible.In your case,first of all,you should make your boss happy by convincing him with the situations.Say all facts to him & request to sanction leave even without pay,if you don't have leave in credit.If you have sufficient numbers of earn leave,you should request to sanction this leave.

    Also you should assure your boss to work hard after coming back from the leave.If your boss is agree,it is alright otherwise find any other alternate to do works at your designated place.You should not loose job.If you don't find any alternate means to manage works at home/designated place,meet the still higher authority & explain the same.

    Hope your situation will be realized & considered positively.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    Hello friend
    Itís not a serious problem what you have to do is that just go to your boss office or in the HR department and tell all the problem which now are suffered from tell to your higher authority that due to one of my close family member was recently died that why sir I am unable to attend the office this the only reason sir. I am sure that your boss will definitely understand your problem and not fired you.
    Thanking you hopes you like my suggestionÖ

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    HELLO FRIEND....,

    It is really very sad to hear about your relative. It is a tough time for you to manage. But this is the ultimate fact .One who comes has to go ,even if you get disheartened you have to accept the fact that you have to continue with your life. You have already taken a long leave and if you continue taking such , this may lead to certain problems at your workplace. You need to understand that you have to manage your job as well. So give a fresh start to it .
    Nobody knows the future . There may occur some circumstances that you get distracted from your work . For example, health factor. So be serious now.

    As for another leave is required in the next week , you can approach your boss and give an application for leave. Make it very clear to him that you have now returned back to your work with full enthusiasm and will surely continue with it. If it is not so important for you to attend the emergency , then your family members can go.

    Good luck.

    THANK YOU.

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    Dear Humanity is also a thing in the world and I am sure that your boss will understand your problem and approve you leave for more days because someone has expired from your family and you are the only person who can manage at this time to all your family and other members that is why your family and relatives need you more at present

    You should not afraid and meet your boss in the office and mention the cause that you are unable to be continue at present and all the responsibilities are on your shoulders that is why you wants to make everyone satisfied at this time and about the moment so you want leave for some more days so your boss will definitely approve you because this is the situation that can be done with any person in the world and if he will not assist you at this time then what is boss that is why you should talk to your boss and show your sorrow that you are really worried about the accident and will try to recover soon

    You should make your boss assure that you will return soon after some days and start working and say sorry to your boss because you can not be continue at this time so your boss will understand the situation and if possible then you should take your father with yourself in the office and if your father will meet your boss then they will be happy and request for more leaves

    All the best

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    Its been a painful situation from which you are going through so you should explain all the matter in front of the boss that its an unavoidable circumstances that you cannot ignore and also i am not in favour of loosing the job because its a new job and it is very much valuable for you. If you explain in a good manner then you boss will think about it and can offer you some more day leave but for that you need to make a promise to him that after coming from the vacation you will work for more than one hour everyday without any overtime so that he will understand that you are not doing all these things intentionally. So you must consider your boss for the same and always try to make a good relation with him so that he will always do help to you. Well as you said that you dont want to get in such situation that make you jobless so you must speak to the boss.

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    Dear Friend

    It is sad to hear the demise of your loved one, but what has gone is gone and you cannot get it back. You now have to concentrate on your job. I can understand your bosses situation because a lot of work is pending and he wants it to be completed at the earliest. on the other hand i also understand your situation as you have lost your loved one and have responsibilities towards your family. you can't run away from both, you will have to balance the both and act as a bridge.

    So here are a few suggestions:
    1. Talk to your family about it, I am sure they will understand after all they are your family.
    2. Talk t your boss and convince him that even if you go on leave you will complete the pending work on time.
    3. Prepare a time table to complete your office work as well as your personal life work.
    4. If you get a better offer, just change your job.
    5. Talk to a friend, a colleague or a close family member and get their opinion.

    Hope this will help you.

    Good Luck....

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    It is really a difficult situation.you have taken a long leave and again you want a leave for next week.It is very difficult for the your if you increase these holidays still.so,if you want to save your job immediately join your job.or else it is very critical for you to save your job.so join job immediately.

    all the best
    thank you

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    Re: Fear of losing my job because of family emergencies but want to continue this job

    Hello friend,

    It is so sad to hear that you have lost some one from your family,also you have pressure both of family and job,as you have joined the company recently and due to the death in your family member you had already taken many holidays and now again you are in need of the holiday,it is natural that your won't be ready to give you any more holidays.

    you should talk to your boss personally and explain him all the things and tell him the bad time from which you crossing these days,at first he might be angry but after hearing all the things i am sure he will give you some more holidays.

    at this stage of time you should be very strong and never get down ,keeping all your feelings aside you have to manage the whole situation.

    all the best
    thank you.

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