1. #1
    Unregistered

    Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    I have just completed my graduation in B.Tech Civil and now looking for a job. In the last month I appeared for 5 interviews but failed miserably in all of them. The problem with me is that I tend to get very nervous during the interviews inspite of being good in my subjects.I am really depressed right now due to the uncertainty regarding my future. How should I get over this problem?

  2. #2
    DLavanya Array
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    37

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Hi ,
    You said you appeared for 5 interviews but you failed.
    Every one has the stage fear or feeling nervous about interview or paper presentation.Overcoming of this kind of feelings is dependence upon mentality of person that means it is different from person to person.To overcome this problem you have to buildup confidence on you ,self motivation is very important.If you are nervous during the interview then first you forget that you are in front of some interviewer and treat that he is some one like your friend asking doubts about some questions this is easy technique to overcome nervous.this nervous starts because of some feelings like you are very less or you don't know about any thing(technically) or because of lack of self confidence.if you like follow it,
    “If my mind can conceive it, My heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it”.and finally my small suggestion is believe your self first.
    All the best.

  3. #3
    Vinod Singh Bisht Array
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    24

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Dear Friend,
    The trends is changing. Even you have the knowledge but you can't perform well in an interview if you are not well in confidence & communication.
    Keep in mind first two things and then third
    1. Confidences: while interviewing keeps little smile on your face and be confident (Your smile will hide your all negative energy of your face (Very Important),
    2. Communication and command on language: Communication means good and cleaver communication (Very Very Important).
    3. Knowledge: Even you have good knowledge but you may fail in an interview if you don't have confidence & Good communication.
    " Do not worry keep trying” '' Impossible is nothing”

  4. #4
    Kangaroo Array
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    678

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Your failure at the five consecutive interviews reveal your unpreparedness for the interview inspite of being a good student.There is no room for nervousness in professional world.So you have to shed it off from you inorder to succeed.There is nothing to get depressed with the failure because many opportunities are yet to come and you should aim to be successful in it.You should be determined to improve yourself and get rid of this problem.Here are certain suggestions to get rid of your nervousness.

    -Be prepared with the answers to the questions that are commonly asked in an interview.
    -Have deep and long breathing before the interviews to relax.
    -Have a positive attitude and hope for the positive consequences.
    -Practice by participating in various discussions and mock interviews.
    -Do not worry about the criticism,
    -Think only about the present.

  5. #5
    abrocks Array
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Posts
    156

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Hi buddy

    I think you should not take so much pressure and unnecessary stress as this is definitely not good for your health. You should try to be confident about your abilities and your knowledge. You should not be thinking about the negative things and should only let positive thoughts enter your mind. In this way you will definitely not feel nervous when you attend your next interview. So you should not get dejected just because you failed in the last 5 interviews but try to think only positive regarding your future.

    As you are good in your subjects, which means you have the capability of clearing all the interviews but you only need to boost up your confidence. You should not be nervous and keep yourselves calm and composed. Try to think that you know everything and you will certainly do well in your interview. You have the blessings of your family with you and these will surely help you to get your reward. I am sure if you enter the interview room with confidence and make a good first impression on your interviewer, then everything will be good only and you will definitely get a good job.

    Good luck friend. I hope you get a good job and hopefully will have a brighter future. Thanks

  6. #6
    atul aggarwal Array
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    29

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    This is a very common problem in these times.
    first of all you need to build up your confidence. Be confident with your knowledge
    Before interview,don't think about interview questions.instead of this,try to think about something that make you happy.
    while interview keep smiling and have confidence in you.
    never think in any interview like this is your last chance.because it will make you nervous.

  7. #7
    Ashok Array
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    2,293

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I have just completed my graduation in B.Tech Civil and now looking for a job. In the last month I appeared for 5 interviews but failed miserably in all of them. The problem with me is that I tend to get very nervous during the interviews inspite of being good in my subjects.I am really depressed right now due to the uncertainty regarding my future. How should I get over this problem?
    Dear Aspirant,

    Nervousness is the root cause of failure.You should try to avoid it.In order to get rid off this problem,you have to change your thought.You should have positive attitude for the interview & for your future.You should first think as an important,intelligent & very useful person on this plannet.

    Every body can not get engineering degree.You have got it .It means you are different from many.Likewise you should boost your mental power.You can also think,you may be a interviewer one day later.So you should have confidence in yourself.

    You should take care in each & every steps for good performance in interview.You should take care as to your dress,which shoiuld be dark in colour of pant,light colour shirt,black colour shoes & shocks etc.Also your hair should be well combed.

    You should enter the room with good manner & never think that this is the last chance of your interview.When you are good in paper,you need not worry.You can think that you have very good scopes of getting job.you can compete IES for good future.

    So be bold enough to face the intyerview well.Practice to speak well before the interview.

    Thanks & good luck.

    Ashok

  8. #8
    Boss Array
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    1,649

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Your failure at the 5 consecutive interviews reveal your unpreparedness for the interview inspite of being a decent student.There is no space for nervousness in skilled world.So you have got to shed it removed from you inorder to succeed.
    There is nothing to urge depressed with the failure as a result of several opportunities square measure nonetheless to come back and you must aim to achieve success in it.You should be determined to enhance yourself and obtain obviate this drawback.Here square measure sure suggestions to urge obviate your nervousness.
    I think you must not take such a lot pressure and gratuitous stress as this can be positively not sensible for your health. you must try and be assured concerning your skills and your information. you must not be puzzling over the negative things and will solely let positive thoughts enter your mind. during this approach you may positively not feel nervous after you attend your next interview. therefore you must not get deflated simply because you failing within the last five interviews however try and assume solely positive concerning your future.

    As you're sensible in your subjects, which implies you have got the potential of clearing all the interviews however you merely ought to improve your confidence. you must not be nervous and keep yourselves calm and composed. try and assume that you just understand everything and you may definitely act in your interview. you have got the blessings of your family with you and these can sure assist you to urge your reward. i'm positive if you enter the interview space confidently and create a decent initial impression on your asker, then everything are sensible solely and you may positively get a decent job.
    Nervousness is that the root explanation for failure.You should try and avoid it.In order to urge free off this drawback,you have to vary your thought.You should have positive perspective for the interview & for your future.You should initial assume as a very important,intelligent & terribly helpful person on this plannet.

    Every one cannot get engineering degree.You have got it .It means that you're completely different from several.Likewise you must boost your mental power.You can additionally assume,you may be a asker in the future later.So you must think about in yourself.

    You must beware in every & each steps permanently performance in interview.You should beware on your dress,which shoiuld be dark in color of pant,light color shirt,black color shoes & shocks etc.Also your hair ought to be combed.

    You must enter the area with sensible manner & ne'er assume that this can be the last probability of your interview.When you square measure sensible in paper,you need not worry.You can assume that you just have excellent scopes of obtaining job.you can contend IES permanently future.

  9. #9
    Its ams Array
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Posts
    210

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    hi, friend .

    >> its normal thing and problem is your lack of confident .

    >> you have to be confident otherwise if you are knowledgeable then also its wont help.

    >> you have take all the information about particular company before you seat for interview.

    >>just some bit of smartness is require and some bit of preparation .

    >> and dont get confuse about your job and dreams otherwise you cant do any thing.

    >> so just be smart and powerfull. its your 5th one you have to try till your dreams comes true.

    >> i hope this will help you.

    >.all the very best

  10. #10
    vinod kumar Array
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    219

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    dear friend,,,
    getting nervous at first time is good.but all the time not good.
    now,you have sit for 5 interviews still you are getting nervous means you are not confident.
    in this situation you can do only one thing that is you should make a group of some students and along with them you should practice for interview.
    it will increase your confidence.and when you will feel confident you will not get nervous.
    so,try it.
    good luck !!!

  11. #11
    bonomali Array
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    984

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Hello,

    Don't worry my friend. You need to change your interview strategy. First write down the quations
    you were asked during your previous interviews. Now, find suitable answers to each of them. You
    can also use internet to find out sample interview questions and the methods to crack it. Don't get
    nervous at all. You should be confident in your actions and body language during the interview process.

    Bye,

  12. #12
    ankit70 Array
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    75

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Well dear as you are failing in interview from last 5 times.it does happen with so many people and everyone has the tendency to be nervous in interview.so do not worry about it much and no need to be frustrated.you need to do one thing and that is build up self confidence and motivate yourself that you can do it.when you are in front of interviewer treat him as your friend and give answers.go and take some tips with the persons who have cleared.it will surely help you.thank you

  13. #13
    aashisranjan784 Array
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Posts
    69

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Dear Friend

    Do not get frustrated ,as we all know that failures are the pillars of success.It do happen with lots of people that they get confused and nervous while attending an interview.

    Since you have given five interviews you must have learnt one new thing and weakness of yours.

    Try to work on that and be patient you will definitely get success.

    You can join some of the institutes which take interviews for boosting up confidence so that they can do well in the actual interview.

    Always be calm and cool so that you can give your 100%.

    Hope the information helps you .If you have any more query you can leave it here .

    All the best

    aashisranjan784

  14. #14
    you@ Array
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Posts
    295

    Re: Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I have just completed my graduation in B.Tech Civil and now looking for a job. In the last month I appeared for 5 interviews but failed miserably in all of them. The problem with me is that I tend to get very nervous during the interviews inspite of being good in my subjects.I am really depressed right now due to the uncertainty regarding my future. How should I get over this problem?
    Hallo friends...

    ...Here are some information for you.You asked that "Failing continuously in the last 5 interviews"..The information are discussed below::
    According to me you should not worry about this.You should take proper training for this.You should Learn proper grammer as well you have to proper knowledge in computer language.
    Also you should have good communication language in english which is most important in IT sector..Watch more english movie,Try to speak english in front of your family and give presentation in english which can helps you to improve in your gesture and posture..

    Hope this information will helps yo in future.For further information please post here.
    Thanking you...
    Regards from you@


+ Reply to Thread

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 35
    Last Post: 30-06-2013, 10:12 AM
  2. Replies: 8
    Last Post: 26-03-2013, 01:07 PM