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    The doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with one another

    I am working as a doctor in a government hospital. I have heard that the doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with each other at all and they never talk to each other. But I love making friends and thus am very worried that how will I survive in such a hostile atmosphere. What to do in such a situation?

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    Re: The doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with one another

    Hello...

    Friend, first thing is that you are saying that you listened that no doctors in that hospital talk to each other , but you have not seen yet so don't be so afraid about that thing . I don't think so that without talking to each other doctor can do work , and the second thing that you love to making friend so you know how to make friends so go and show this talent to yourself, it is not necessary that nobody will become your friend, everybody have a friend or a mate so don't worry about that. Be good at your work and people will automatically come to talk with you.

    thanks.

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    Re: The doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with one another

    Hi friend
    Now you have to do is that announced a small party in your home for the occasion of that you are newly joined this hospital. Invite all the doctors of your hospital. And when they all are come to your home and enjoy the party then after sometime gathered all the doctors and politely asked to all of the doctors that why you all are not talk to each other. Say to all of them you are a fun loving person and we all are same enjoy your life and talking to each other.
    I hope may be they can be talking to each other in a short time of interval
    Thanking hope you like my suggestion….

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    Re: The doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with one another

    Dear friend you are a Doctor and working in a Govt.Hospital.Here you have heard that Doctors are not on good terms with each other at all they never talk to each other.You are worried as you like to make friends,thinking how you will bat over the hostile situation.

    Your problem is difficult type, how and what action you will take when your colleague is not like to talk with you.
    1.Try to be more familiar with your colleagues without odd thinking and always in helping/sacrificing mood.
    2.Your duty to maintain friend ship with each other so your endevour should be to that angle.
    3.You love all and never discourage about their own expression let them expressed about their topic.
    4.Thus you can at least avert such hostile situation sacrificing yourself positively.

    Thank you,

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    Re: The doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with one another

    Hello,

    Your profession is noble and great value in society. As a professional it is your duty to maintain good
    relationship with your fellow doctors in the hospital. This will help you in critical situations. So you should
    be ready to exchange your views with them. Don't take any assumptions too early as it can destroy the
    atmosphere in thw workplace.

    Bye,

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    Re: The doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with one another

    Hi aspirant

    Now if the other doctors are not interested in making friends with each other you should not be worried about this at all. I am sure that if you are determined to make friends you will surely succeed and no one can stop you from doing that. Your jolly and good nature will definitely win the hearts of other doctors and you surely will be the favourite of everyone. Thus you should not give up even if the atmosphere is hostile and keep on trying.

    I am sure all the doctors will love to be your friends if you are faithful to them . If you are a good friend then there is no reason that anybody will not like to befriend you. I am sure that there will definitely be some people in your hospital who still love making friends inspite of hostility all around. You can start by making friends with them. I am quite sure that you will definitely be able to adapt to this place and enjoy working here.

    I hope you understand my point. Good luck

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    Re: The doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with one another

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working as a doctor in a government hospital. I have heard that the doctors in our hospital are not on good terms with each other at all and they never talk to each other. But I love making friends and thus am very worried that how will I survive in such a hostile atmosphere. What to do in such a situation?
    Hello Aspirant,

    It is not good to have such situations among the most educated people.The doctors are treated as next to god in human society.If they are in good terms with each others in their working place,they will have good cooperation among themselves which will ultimately benefit the working place by giving better & better treatments to the needed patients,who in turn may bless all doctors for their happy,long & prosperous life.

    You need not worry for the situations prevailing in your working place.The terms are not good among those doctors who are already working there,which does not mean that all of them may not have good terms with you.if you try hard,you can bring back harmony relationships among those doctors.You may request head of the hospital to call a meeting to discuss about the working environment & for its better development.

    In facts,some of the doctors earn much money in pvt.practice & these doctors feel superiority complex to have friendship with others who are not as reach as them.In turn those who are equally reach to them,they too think not to be close to them.

    So need not worry & serve the patients well,you may be blessed by them for you good life.You may feel your patients as a good friend one day.

    Good luck.

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