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    Complaint against bullying has made it worse for me

    I was being bullied in my office because of my height so I complained to my boss about it. he called a meeting in the office and told everybody to stop with the bullying and said strict action will be taken. but for me it has gotten worse because now I am being bullied in a subtle manner. what can I do?

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    abbebo Array
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    Re: Complaint against bullying has made it worse for me

    Hi buddy

    If you are being bullied again, but in a subtle manner, even after your boss's warning and saying that strict action will be taken against such people; then you should not withstand such a thing and go and complain to your boss regarding this. Dont be afraid of going to him again for the same reason. He will not take it badly and will surely understand your problem. Go and talk to him and this will relieve you of this burden and torture. Tell him that even after his announcement that strict action will be taken against the bullies, these people havent stopped bothering you and are continuing to bully you but in a subtle manner. This has made your life hell in this company and also you are not able to concentrate on your work due to this. So request your boss to find a permanent solution to this matter.

    Tell your boss the names of the bullies if you havent already told and I am sure they will get the punishment they deserve and thus will stop bothering you in future. So dont worry friend. Be brave and fight these bullies like a lion. Dont be afraid of anyone and do what you think is right.

    Good luck and Thanks

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    Re: Complaint against bullying has made it worse for me

    Hi.................,

    What can you do ....?
    * You can again complain to manager.
    * You can even bring a complain to boss.
    * Neglect those who are just engage in bullying process.
    * Emphasize your work and its performance.
    * Make your reputation more higher.

    Thanks

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    Re: Complaint against bullying has made it worse for me

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I was being bullied in my office because of my height so I complained to my boss about it. he called a meeting in the office and told everybody to stop with the bullying and said strict action will be taken. but for me it has gotten worse because now I am being bullied in a subtle manner. what can I do?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is better not to mind this .If any body teases you or call you by different name,don't listen to it & if you are called by your name,response for it.After some time every body will realise that you are not being disturbed.So they will not call you by any other name.

    Second option is to lodge a complain to the police station for teasing you due to natural hight.There may be some action against them,but you should have some witness.Your boss may be witness,because he called a meeting & warned not to tease you.So first of all discuss with your boss & if he suggest,you can proceed further.

    So see your position & proceed further.

    Thanks.

    Ashok

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    Re: Complaint against bullying has made it worse for me

    Re: Complaint against bullying has made it worse for me
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    Hi,

    I think you need to have chat with those who are teasing you because of your tall height.
    Tell them that this is something that is not in your hands.
    It has been gifted by the God.
    And no one should make fun of what God has endowed you with.
    You never know that what might happen in the future.
    You should respect each other and not bully each other.
    You are working as a family,then why treat one in a different manner from others and that too because of something for which he is not responsible.
    I think your words will leave a deep impact on the co-workers and they will learn not to bully you at the work place.

    Bye!


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    Re: Complaint against bullying has made it worse for me

    Hello !!!

    dear, you should have thought before going to the senior authority,as you have complained to the senior authority so it was their responsibility to call a meeting and give warning to those who were bullying you.
    but he finished his job but you forget that you have to live around the persons who bullied you.
    also you done one thing good that you did not complained personally about any one otherwise it might has gone more worse than today.

    ok,dont worry !!

    if the are still bullying you indirectly and not in direct manner.
    so dont worry just keep ignoring them as they are doing their own job and you have to do yours own.
    so just listen form one ear and take it out from other one.
    because god has given us two ear for the same.
    and if you will start ignoring them they will stop doing it.

    hope i am clear to you .
    thanks for posting in EALP.
    pushp ranjan singh

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