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    Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Me and my co worker had been hired at the same time about 2 years ago. our working hours are from 9 a.m to 6 p.m my co worker comes half and hour late everyday , leaves early and takes too many sick leaves with excuses like ‘you know I am a mother I have to look after my family also’. tell my boss about this is of no use because he is passive but I feel cheated.

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Hi friend

    I dont think it is fair that your colleague should get more advantages over you just because she is a female.There should be equality in all the aspects and your boss should be responsible enough to realise such a thing so such discrimination does not take place. I know how you are feeling right now and completely sympathesize with you. But you should not worry and go and speak to your boss again.

    Tell your boss about that female employee that how she comes late to the office and leaves early. Tell him that this is against the rules an dshe should be warned not to repeat this again . She should not take advantage of the boss just because she is a female and a mother. She should also be taught how to follow the proper rules and regulations and not to break them whenever she likes.

    I hope your boss understands you and takes some action in this regard. Otherwise you cant do much about it. Then the best option for you would be to ignore this situation and concentrate on your work and on your future. Make your future bright and dont worry about such issues. Life is not a bed of roses and you will have to face many such situations in your life. Thus you cannot be tensed all the time. Be happy and keep smiling.

    Good luck

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Hello !!!

    dear, if she is doing it so, than she has very less working days left in the company.
    because company cant tolerate such a excuse making employee.
    if you can look after your work than you have no right to work in the company.
    just go to home and look after children.

    this is not mine statement, but this is the statement which will be given by the company to that particular lady employee.
    so you just dont worry, and dont feel cheated about this.
    just do your work with loyalty.

    remember, only those product comes in an use which is useful for the company.

    hope i am clear to you.
    thanks for posting in EALP.
    pushp ranjan singh

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Hello !!!

    dear, if she is doing it so, than she has very less working days left in the company.
    because company cant tolerate such a excuse making employee.
    if you can look after your work than you have no right to work in the company.
    just go to home and look after children.

    this is not mine statement, but this is the statement which will be given by the company to that particular lady employee.
    so you just dont worry, and dont feel cheated about this.
    just do your work with loyalty.

    remember, only those product comes in an use which is useful for the company.

    hope i am clear to you.
    thanks for posting in EALP.....
    pushp ranjan singh

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Hi..............,

    I think ,
    You must mind your own business first.

    Suggestions----->
    * If you will work hard you will get promotion.
    * If you will work more hard then your reputation will increase.
    * If you will work more hard then your capability to company will increase.
    * You will be given more importance for any project in future.

    -- So why are you comparing with a lady.
    -- Do you want to become like her and stick at a position.

    Thanks...

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    I know if it comes to ladies then most are soft towards them but I don't think this is professionally correct! If you have been asked to take responsibility then all employees should be treated equally, and the advantage should be allowed depending up-on the hierarchy not based on their gender

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Me and my co worker had been hired at the same time about 2 years ago. our working hours are from 9 a.m to 6 p.m my co worker comes half and hour late everyday , leaves early and takes too many sick leaves with excuses like ‘you know I am a mother I have to look after my family also’. tell my boss about this is of no use because he is passive but I feel cheated.
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is quite natural to feel unhappy when one of cader at the same rank,gets more liberty than others.But you should think of your own matters more positively than to see others.If you need leave,you can also take with the permission of your boss,but if you don't need it really,you should note take any pain to see others' benifits.I think both of you have got separate charges of works & are responsible to complete it in time.If it is not so,get it done with the guidance of your boss so that you do your duty in time & be free.When she is going with the permission of the boss & the boss is realising her position,you should not feel unnecessarily unhappy.You might be getting pain due to it.

    So get your works charges separate,do it in time & be happy.Don't bother for others.

    Thanks.

    Ashok..


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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Ok dear i have got your problem that your co-worker is a female and getting advantage of her gender by saying that she is a mother and she have to look after for her family so dear as for as my views are concerned that due to this activity you are almost getting load in your work and you are completing her work also in the office and she takes leaves sometimes by saying the sickness and illness so dear there is a solution of your problem which is :

    >> You should go to your boss and ask them for your help and tell them everything in detail

    >> You should also go to the manager or head of the company and tell them the complete problem

    >> If your boss is no listening you about her excuses then you should write an application about your query and go the the CMD or CEO of the company and i am sure that they will definitely help you about this

    >> You should also ask your co-worker that you should work with me honestly and tell her your situation that you are not able to work alone in the office and you need her assistance in office and if she say sorry then you should not say to her and complain her to the office in-charge or CMD

    All the best


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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    i think you should concentrate on your work only,because inspite of many complaints by you to boss he is not responding to you. so better don't interfere in other matters.. if you feel cheated better find good job outside enjoy every moment of life...

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Hey!
    Its very disappointing to see that the female employee is taking undue advantage of the fact that the boss is not taking action against her. In my opinion you should go and talk to your colleague first and tell her that the two of you have to work consistently and in coordination with each other. You should mention that if she has her personal life then you also have a family to attend to. You should tell her that the two of you should aid each other and there should be equality in the division of work.

    It might be possible that your colleague doesn't intentionally come late to college and that she is facing some serious problem in her life. If that is the case then you should help her in whatever way you can. On the contrary if you find out that this is a bad habit of your colleague then you should mention to her that you will not tolerate this kind of unprofessionalism especially when her habits are creating problems for you.

    You will have to raise your voice against the mal practice that is being followed in your office. Everything that has to be done should be divided equally and fairly. You should report to your manager and urge him to take strict action against her wrong habits and also mention how this is creating dissatisfaction amongst the employees and it is also affecting their efficiency. I am sure that for the betterment of the organization your boss will take a wise decision and give an notice to the employee. All the best! Just keep giving it your best shot.

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    I personally do not still find it sensible that the friend ought to have more strengths around you simply since jane is any female.There should be equal rights out of all elements plus your employer ought to assume responsibilty enough for you to realize such a thing therefore this kind of discrimination can require place. I know how you really feel right this moment in addition to wholly sympathesize by using you. But you should not fear in addition to move in addition to confer with your employer again.

    Inform your employer about that women member of staff in which the best way the lady will come overdue to work leaving early. Be sure he understands in which that is next to the rules a dshe ought to quote never to continue this yet again.The lady ought not make use of the employer although jane is a female and also a mother. The lady ought to be shown the way to go through correct regulations and never to get rid of these individuals anytime the lady likes.

    I really hope your employer comprehends you and usually takes several measures within this regard. Or you will cannot complete much pertaining to it. Then the best option available for you should be to disregard this example while keeping focused in your projects additionally, on your current future.

    Help make your future shiny in addition to do not worry about this kind of issues. Life isn't a cargo area regarding roses and you will have to manage several this kind of conditions in your life. So you are unable to be tensed every one of the time. Be at liberty and smiling.

    It is very natural for you to feel not happy whenever one among cader at the same list,may get much more freedom than others.But you should consider your personal concerns much more absolutely instead of observe others.If you'll need abandon,an individual can also take while using the approval of your employer,however unless you need it,you need to be aware take just about any agony to see other individualistically.I believe both of you need split charges regarding functions & account to perform the idea within time.


    It will be possible that the friend doesn't intentionally occur overdue to college and this jane is dealing with several severe problems in your ex life. When that is the situation then you certainly ought to aid your ex by any means an individual can. On the contrary in the event you find out in which this is the terrible habit of your current friend then you certainly ought to discuss for you to your ex that you will not accept this sort of unprofessional ism specifically when your ex behavior are coming up with trouble for you.

    You'll have to raise your voice from the mal train that is certainly currently being followed in your office. Precisely what has to be completed should be broken down equally in addition to fairly. You must report to your current office manager in addition to need your pet to look at rigorous measures next to your ex improper behavior as well as discuss the best way that is developing unhappiness between the workers in fact it is likewise impacting on the efficiency. I am sure in which for that betterment from the company your employer can take any smart decision and provide a see to your employee. Best wishes! Just simply keep giving it your better photo

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    Re: Co- worker taking advantage of her gender

    Re: Co-worker taking advantage of her gender

    Hi friends,

    I think You must mind your own business first.

    Suggestions----->

    * If you will work hard you will get promotion.
    * If you will work more hard then your reputation will increase.
    * If you will work more hard then your capability to company will increase.
    * You will be given more importance for any project in future.

    So why are you comparing with a lady.
    Do you want to become like her and stick at a position.

    Thanks!!!
    all the best...........

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