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    Co-employees speaking ill about character on mere fact of increment due to performance

    I have been awarded twice in my one year of experience and my salary hiked twice too for my performance in office. Recently I came to know that people in office speak ill words about my relation with boss which is not true. Does working being a girl is an offence?

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: Co-employees speaking ill about character on mere fact of increment due to performance

    Hello,

    No, not at all. You should ignore such comments. Generally people are hungry for success in
    each and every fields so when they see a successful women infront of them they make such
    nasty comments. You have received such promotion because of your performance and hard
    work so don't let emotion control you. Just ignore them.

    Bye,

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    Ashok Array
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    Re: Co-employees speaking ill about character on mere fact of increment due to performance

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I have been awarded twice in my one year of experience and my salary hiked twice too for my performance in office. Recently I came to know that people in office speak ill words about my relation with boss which is not true. Does working being a girl is an offence?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is a common phenomena to talk ill about any woman or girl when she talks with any male member which may or may not be true.You should not care much unless & until you hear some ill talks directly from the speaking persons.If any one teases you,then you should not keep mum,but you should first try to convince him not to do so.You can say him ''you sister or wife or any female member might be or may work some where one day,so you think same about her.''He will be alright & he may give up teasing you ever,provided you should be always away from such real incident.You should concentrate in your work & should not give room for others to interact un-necessarily.If you feel much disturbance,you can take help of administration.

    It is nothing wrong for female to work in a plant/company/office ,but one should be confined to oneself.

    Hope you will get rid of your problem.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    srinivasa Array
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    Re: Co-employees speaking ill about character on mere fact of increment due to performance

    No, working as a girl is not an offence don't think about this anymore.. The reason is that you have been working hard for it and your performance is good and you should be happy that you have been rewarded for your work.. don't try to prove a point for others except for yourself. you know what you are, be sincere at work.. People will say something i don't say that you don't care but you should prove them wrong.. Prove that their thinking is below standard cheap mentality people will always bluff this is called negativity that will be induced into your mind and dampen your spirits at work.. Nobody has right about speaking bad about one's character every one knows about what they are and what their character is.. When your colleagues are speaking ill about your relation about you and your boss then don't hesitate in clearing the air i mean be cool and try to arm twist the person who have told about this.. Make him eat his words when you have some self respect towards yourself.. Its important that you clean your image.. Lash out at the person not people i am sure there a negative propaganda not all will think about bad about you don't mention people catch the person who is spreading negative talks about you give all the reasons why your elevated and tell his character,his thinking to all. Curtail his talks with your effective defense you give him back to him in ill mannered way.. Tell him to prove it to others that your bad, people will like evidence for it merely speaking rubbish is bad don't entertain any wrong sayings about you..

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