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    Bosses husband is asking me to keep her updated of office activities

    At our annual retreat party I met my bosses husband. He is a nice charming person and we got talking. Towards the end of the party he gave me his personal number and asked me to keep him updated about the things happening in the office, especially about my boss. What should I do?

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    abbebo Array
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    Re: Bosses husband is asking me to keep her updated of office activities

    Hi buddy

    I think it is really wrong if you leak your company's information and secrets to anyone even if it is your boss's husband. He has no right to keep an eye on the company's goings especially his wife and if he wants to even know something then it should be from his wife and not from an employee. If you agree to his wishes and do as he says, then you may later get into trouble if your boss comes to know about it and this may lead to even losing your job which will be really bad for your future.

    So you should telephone your boss's husband and tell him straightforward that you wont tell him anything about the ongoings in office and also about the boss's activities. Whatever he wants to know it would be better if he talks to his wife regarding the same.

    Now if he tries to destroy your reputation in front of your boss by misleading her about you just to take revenge then you go forward and inform your boss about what happened at the party and how he told you to inform about her and the company's ongoings. And when you refused him, now he is trying to blackmail you.

    This will clear your position and thus you will be safe. Good luck and take every step wisely

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    venki Array
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    Re: Bosses husband is asking me to keep her updated of office activities

    hello friends...

    1) the company information is secret you do not leak to any person if it is your boss husband also

    2)he has no right to keep eye on the company's going especially his wife

    3)if he wants to even know something then it should be form his wife and not form an employee

    4)you may later get it trouble if your boss comes to know about it

    5)this may lead to even losing your job which will be really bad for your career

    6)so tell to him that you wont tell anything about the on goings in office and about boss's activities

    best of luck

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