1. #1
    Unregistered

    Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    I am working in a private firm. my boss is a very kind hearted person and very caring towards his employees. But just yesterday due to some misunderstanding, my boss is very angry with me.He has called me to his office tomorrow. Now I am very afraid about what will happen tomorrow. How should I handle this situation?

  2. #2
    Vinod Singh Bisht Array
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    24

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    Dear Friend,
    Believe in kindness.
    You are saying that due to some misunderstanding your boss is angry with you.
    If there is any misunderstanding then prepare yourself to make it clear. If your boss will angry on you then don't be reactive be cool and calm. Listen carefully what he is saying and then except any mistake, even a very little mistake on why all this happened. But keep in mind don't be reactive.
    All the Best

  3. #3
    Kangaroo Array
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    678

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    Misunderstandings is a common feature in most of the relation, be it personal or professional.It is just how well you handle it with perfection and make the situation favourable by everything clear.You should not get afraid because of misunderstandings.Instead strive hard to eradicate all the sources of such misunderstandings.This is because it can adversely affect your work and put a mark on your career.

    -Since you are boss has called you,so you should take this as a positive sign.
    -You should utilize this opportunity to the fullest by making everything clear.
    -You very well know what is the misunderstanding and how it is created.You just have to make your boss realize the same.
    -Go for the meeting with a positive attitude.
    -Be polite and humble as well as honest while talking to him.
    -Explain him the cause of misunderstanding and clear all the misconceptions.
    -Express sorry for all mistakes if you have committed.
    -Request for a new beginning.

  4. #4
    Madhu M Array
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Posts
    685

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    Hi friend

    I don't think you should be afraid of anything if you haven't done anything wrong. You should only be afraid if you have done something wrong and thus your boss will reprimand you for the same. So as its just a misunderstanding, you should not be afraid at all and be confident that you will be able to explain everything to your boss and thus clear his misunderstanding. So friend when you walk into his ofice tomorrow, don't be afraid but beam with confidence so that he doesn't think that you are guilty.

    As for now you should calm down and don't take any unnecessary tension due to this matter. Just think that everything will be alright tomorrow when you go to your boss and explain everything to him. Don't think anything negative and thus only be positive. Negativity will make things worse for you but if you remain positive, then surely you will be able to find a solution for this and thus will not be tensed at all.

    Now as for tomorrow, you should go there confidently. When your boss blames you for anything and tries to show his anger towards the same, you should tell him that you are sorry if he is angry with you but you want to tell him that there has been some misunderstanding due to which he is putting the blame on you. You assure him that you haven't done anything wrong and that he can believe you. He has some misunderstanding which you really hope that you will be able to clear soon.

    Then your boss will certainly calm down and thus will tell you to clear your misunderstanding. Then you can present to him some evidence in your favour which will prove your innocence and then I am sure you will be able to get relieved from this tension. So friend i am sure your boss will believe you when you give him evidence in your favour and will surely realise his mistake.

    Then you can heave a sigh of relief and can concentrate full on your work. Good luck and Thanks

  5. #5
    Sai Deep Array
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Posts
    388

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    Hi
    If you think that there is some misunderstanding then you should better clarify it sooner.
    Do explain him thewhole situation and give him the valid reason for it.
    Be clear and discuss the mater straightforward.
    But if you think that somewhere the mistake is yours then its better to accept your mistake and give a clear coffession about the matter and apologise to him.
    This way you can solve the matter easily.

    Thank you

  6. #6
    atul aggarwal Array
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    29

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    As you said your boss is kind hearted and caring man, so he will definately let you give the explanation.
    So, don't take much tension.
    In morning, goto office with confidence and just act cool in the office.
    In the meeting don't get aggresive. Listen to your boss and try to explain your situation. If you made any mistake,just accept it.
    you can solve this problem easily and best of luck for morning.

  7. #7
    saurav bharti Array
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    128

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    hi,
    as you know your boss in really kind, so he will try to understand you.
    just make him all things clear and try to remove his misunderstanding. in case if he tries to tell some faulty things in you, then accept him and thanks him for letting you know your weaknesses. and confirm him that you'll definitely improve your self

  8. #8
    lamborgini Array
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Posts
    263

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    Hi

    You must act very calm and polite towards your boss.

    As you said it is a misunderstanding and he is a good person, he will surely listen to you.

    You must try to clear out his misunderstanding by telling the truth.

    If he has found you guilty about something you did ,then accept it and say sorry for it.

    Do not worry and fear about the thing you have not done.

    Stay confident with your words while telling anything to your boss but be polite.

    Thankyou

  9. #9
    manojbadoniya Array
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Posts
    802

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    As you have mentioned that you have misunderstood something in the office and your boss is angry with you over this matter so first of all before going to the office of the boss you should find out that cause what you have misunderstood before because getting official details about that particular thing is mandatory so you should find out that details which you have misunderstood and know that what is actual in that then you should go to the office of your boss

    When you go to your boss then you should be polite and candid to your boss because candid behavior is always praised and when you go then say hello sir with smile and try to show that you are really worried about your mistake that you have done before and when your boss ask you about reason that why and how did you do it without getting proper information then you should say sorry and show that you are apologize to you on that mistake and say that that was done intentionally and you are really sorry over that and you accept your mistake and do not say that you were unknown about that and accept your mistake directly because you have did something wrong that made your boss angry and also say that this will never happen again in that company by you so your boss may understand your situation and will forgive you on that matter

    Try to handle the situation easily without any dispute with boss because your boss is caring and all of you employees are lucky that you all are working in that company where boss is really good and better than that of other companies so try to make good relation with your boss and perform better to make your boss happy

    All the best

  10. #10
    john215 Array
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Posts
    796

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    Dear friend,

    This is common thing in office
    you said your boss is kind heated and caring man, so he will definitely let you give the explanation.
    So, don't take much tension.
    In morning, go to office with confidence and just act cool in the office.
    In the meeting don't get aggressive.
    Listen to your boss and try to explain your situation.
    If you made any mistake,just accept it.

    So your problem is solved.

    Thanks!!!
    all the best............

  11. #11
    hardick Array
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Posts
    437

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    As you said your boss is very angry due to misunderstanding then you need to go to him to resolve the misunderstanding because if you not clear all these things then it will not easy to work with the company because all this leads to disater for you.
    If its not your fault then you should not have to worry for the same and just say the truth An leave it on your boss if he realise that its not your mistake then he will definitely be soft from your side.
    I dont know what is the matter but you should say the truth never leave it like that.

  12. #12
    Ashok Array
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    2,293

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. my boss is a very kind hearted person and very caring towards his employees. But just yesterday due to some misunderstanding, my boss is very angry with me.He has called me to his office tomorrow. Now I am very afraid about what will happen tomorrow. How should I handle this situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    Boss is always right & a good boss is like a senior family member.He is like a guardian who has the right to scold & guide you according to the situation prevailing with you.

    Now some misunderstanding has developed between you & your boss for which you are expecting a big scolds from him.Don't worry for it.Go to boss's chamber in time & with full manner.Be calm & try to clear his misunderstanding politely.When he starts scolding you,be keep quite & let his anger be thrown out.When he stops scolding,start clearing the confusion calmly & politely.

    Hope he will realise you & he will be cool with you.

    Thanks & good luck.

  13. #13
    Boss Array
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    1,649

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    My partner and i do not think you should be petrified of nearly anything in the event that you haven't performed nearly anything wrong. You must just fret in the event that you have done something wrong therefore your supervisor may reprimand you with the same. To be able the simply a misunderstanding, you can't fret whatsoever and feel safe that you simply should be able to clarify almost everything for a employer therefore very clear his / her misunderstanding. So close friend when you enter his / her ofice the next day, do not fret nonetheless column with full confidence so that he or she won't feel you are guilty.

    While for the present time you need to unwind and do not take any unnecessary anxiety just for this matter. Simply just imagine that almost everything will likely be alright the next day by visiting your supervisor and clarify almost everything for you to him. Do not believe nearly anything detrimental therefore simply be positive. Mental poison may worsen to suit your needs nonetheless should you continue being good, subsequently undoubtedly you should be able to find a solution in this therefore will not be stiff during all.

    Right now as for the next day, you moves right now there confidently. Once your employer blames you to get nearly anything and efforts to exhibit his / her anger for the same, you need to make sure he understands you are i am sorry in the event that he or she is indignant along nonetheless you should make sure he understands that there has been many misunderstanding with the result that he or she is positioning the blame on you. People provide the pup that you haven't performed nearly anything wrong and hubby can easily believe you. She has many misunderstanding which you undoubtedly trust that you simply should be able to very clear soon.

    Then this employer will clearly unwind therefore will explain to your current misunderstanding. Then you could show the pup many proof with your favour that will show your current purity and then Installed at may get allayed because of this tension. So close friend i am certain your supervisor may believe you when you offer him proof with your favour and will truly realise his / her mistake.
    If you feel right now there is a few misunderstanding then you really should better describe it sooner.
    Do clarify the pup thewhole predicament and offer him the actual valid basis for it.
    Possibly be very clear and discuss the actual mater straightforward.
    However if you feel anywhere you want the big mistake is your own house subsequently the better to just accept your current oversight and present a clear coffession in relation to the issue and apologise for you to him.

  14. #14
    amit gupta007 Array
    Join Date
    Jul 2013
    Posts
    235

    Re: Boss is very angry with me due to some misunderstanding

    hello dear,
    I can understand your situation
    I would recommend following points..
    1.to talk boss directly and try to remove misunderstanding
    2. organised a party invite boss with his family members.
    3.work hard and be smart worker
    4.Talk to everyone very politely and seek help from seniors and other officer.
    All the best friend

+ Reply to Thread

Similar Threads

  1. Not given due leave and now boss is not signing on leave encashment documents
    By Unregistered in forum Professional Discussions
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 07-06-2013, 01:45 AM
  2. I am due for a foreign tenure but boss wants to go himself
    By Unregistered in forum Professional Discussions
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 29-03-2013, 09:31 PM
  3. Boss creates misunderstanding before appraisal
    By Unregistered in forum Professional Discussions
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 03-01-2013, 02:46 PM
  4. Boss does not understand the problems arising due to work shift of my wife
    By Unregistered in forum Professional Discussions
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 31-12-2012, 07:51 PM