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    Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    I am working in a private firm. Recently I decide to leave my job because of the bad work environment. But when I told my boss regarding my decision, he was not ready to listen to me and trying to persuade me to stay by increasing my salary or increasing my bonus . But I really donít want to stay here . How should I explain this to my boss?

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    Re: Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    Hi aspirant

    Maybe your boss is very fond of you and thus don't want you to leave his company. You certainly must be one of his favourites if he is not letting go of you. But this should not make you change your decision of leaving this job as your reason is very genuine and if you stay here you may have to face many difficulties later on. You should remember that high salary is not everything. The work environment should definitely be good so that everyday when you get up, you want to come here, and not just be forced to go.

    You should try and explain your boss about your problem and I am sure he will understand you. Tell your boss that you understand his concern for you and completely respect him but you have to leave this job as you don't feel that the work environment is good here and that you are not able to adjust to the working conditions here. If you stay here, it will definitely not be good for your career and thus you want to start afresh . You hope that he will understand your condition and thus will forgive you for not accepting his wishes. But you will always remember this goodwill gesture of his.

    I am sure your boss will be able to understand you and then you can start afresh. Good luck for tour future

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    Re: Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    Hello Friend,
    Once you have decided to leave the company then anyones persuasion cant change the situation and you can give your resignation letter serve the notice period and leave the company .there is no point of involving into discussion why you are leaving company and..etc.
    but if you are considering the offer made by your boss like salary and bonus then you should raise the topic why you are willing to move out of the company.what is bothering you in current circumstance and if you have any suggestion then you can share that also.
    and if your boss promises to bring some change in the current scenario then you should think again before leaving the company.its pretty sure where you are going nobody can guarantee you regarding a good working condition and what you feel bad may be good for them.so better stick to the job with higher salary and bonus and try to implement the change here in this particular project with the help of your boss.
    Thank you.

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    Re: Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. Recently I decide to leave my job because of the bad work environment. But when I told my boss regarding my decision, he was not ready to listen to me and trying to persuade me to stay by increasing my salary or increasing my bonus . But I really donít want to stay here . How should I explain this to my boss?
    Dear Aspirant,

    In general there is a good demand for good workers/employees.It is not wise decision to leave the job without getting another job.If you get another good job,you will have ground to say to your boss that you have got an opportunity to join another good job.In this situation your boss can not insist you to be in the same company.

    If you want to leave now,you have no proper ground to say to your boss.So get your enhance in your salary & can continue the job here.If at all you have decided to leave the company,your boss can not stop you there.It is not necessary to convince your boss to leave the job.Enter on leave for few days & then send your resignation letter after following the terms & conditions of your appointment letters.

    Thanks & good luck.

    Ashok..

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    Re: Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    This is a matter of pride for you since your boss wants you at his firm.So you should give a thought to the words of your boss.Your boss thinks you to be efficient and hence wants you to stay.Since you do not want to stay there and go to some other firm so you must convey this in an effective manner to your boss.

    -Give a resignation letter to the higher authority.
    -State your genuine reason of leaving the company.
    -Explain your boss your problems in the company.
    -Make him understand your compulsion to leave the company.
    -Thank him for his support and assure him of maintaining the relationship with the company in future.
    -Also tell sorry and ask for his forgiveness to not be able to keep his request of staying in the company.
    -If he still insists,then request for better prospects as a condition to stay.

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    Re: Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    Maybe your supervisor is rather found of yourself and therefore do not would like you to go away his / her company. You definitely need to be among his / her favourites if he's not allowing move involving you. Nonetheless this absolutely should never generate you modify your selection involving departing this task as the explanation is rather real of course, if you remain here you may have to facial area numerous issues afterwards on. Don't forget that which higher salary is never everything. The particular work environment should definitely do great to ensure everyday once you get way up, you should appear here, and not only just always be instructed to go.

    You should try and explain your supervisor concerning your short lived problem and I know he's going to fully grasp you. Educate employer which you are aware of his / her worry intended for you together with absolutely admire your pet yet you have to leave this task when you never come to feel the fact that work environment is nice here and that you cannot adapt to the running problems here. If perhaps you remain here, it's going to not do great for your vocation and therefore you should start off afresh.An individual expect which he's going to fully grasp your lack of control and therefore can eliminate anyone because of not agreeing to his / her wishes. Nevertheless, you will usually remember this a good reputation gesture involving his.
    When you have decided to go away the company in that case anybody's persuasion find it difficult to alter the circumstances and you will offer your resignation notification serve a observe phase leave the company .there is actually no point involving regarding within chat why you are departing corporation and..etc.
    yet if you're considering the offer produced by your supervisor just like income and extra then you definately must elevate the patient why you are going to get out of a company.what is actually bothering you in current circumstance and for those who have just about any hint then you can talk about which also.
    and if the employer offers to take a number of alter in the present circumstances then you definately must you better think again before leaving a company.its convinced exactly where you're heading no one can guarantee anyone relating to a fantastic functioning issue and whatever you feel bad may very well be beneficial to them.so greater stick to the employment by using greater income and extra and continue to use the progres here in this task by making use of your boss.In normal you will find a superior demand once and for all workers/employees.

    It isn't good option to go away the position without having another job.If you get another employment,you will get flooring to be able to tell your supervisor which you've gotten an opportunity to sign up for another job.In this your supervisor cannot strongly encourage anyone to stay in precisely the same company.

    If you want to leave at this moment,you haven't any suitable flooring to be able to tell your boss.So get the improve with your income & might carry on the position here.If with is really as decided to go away the company,your supervisor cannot hold you back there.It is not necessary to be able to coerce your supervisor to go away a job.Enter with leave intended for week & in that case deliver your resignation notification following pursuing the conditions & problems of this consultation letters.

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    Re: Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    Re: Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    Hi friend,

    I think you can give your resignation letter serve the notice period and leave the company.
    There is no point of involving into discussion why you are leaving company.
    But if you are considering the offer made by your boss like salary and bonus then you should raise the topic.
    Why you are willing to move out of the company.
    So think and take a wright decision

    Thanks!!!
    all the best.............

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    Re: Boss persuading me to stay in the company

    hi
    the environment is certainly not the primary issue for leaving any well settled job and specially when your boss doesnít want you to that.
    Therefore you should go and talk to him about all the discomfort you have due to the present environment, and as you have said that he is persuading you to stay, Iím sure that he will ponder on your problems and definitely make out a solution
    Gud luck

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