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    Boss nosey about personal tensions

    My boss has been querying a lot about my personal problems. He blatantly questions about my miscarriage which I am not comfortable about. I worried about mounting pressure. My boss wants me to disclose the reason to my entire team which I donít want to. What should I do?

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    manojbadoniya Array
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    Re: Boss nosey about personal tensions

    Dear this is more than enough being done by your boss and your boss is completely shameless because this is personal information and you will definitely feel uncomfortable while facing your boss and your all colleagues that is why you should only say to your boss that please sir this is something personal and i do not want to open the actual reason of this accident in the entire team because it i would mention then i would not be able to work properly and well in your company which is not good for your company and it's profit so please sir let me forget this and you also stop asking me about my personal life because i can not allow anyone who try to enter into my personal life and wish to know in depth about personal matters

    If they force you to tell everyone then you should refuse your boss and say sorry that you may not tell the actual reason to anyone including you because i wants to be careful and a good employee in your company

    All the best

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    srinivasa Array
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    Re: Boss nosey about personal tensions

    its really not good for a person who ever it might be to peep into personal life of others... a person should have privacy in feeling and personal life.. your boss lacks morals and discipline,as a lady madam i understand your problem and i fell for it.. your boss should mind his manners.. its matter of your self respect don't take back step go aggressive on his remarks.. tell him directly that he should involve too much in your personal life don't fear for your job let it go.. be confident and belief in your self madam...

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    Sai Deep Array
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    Re: Boss nosey about personal tensions

    Hello

    This is very strange that your boss is too much interested in your personal matter.

    This is not good . you must try to avoid this kind of situation.

    When your boss ask you about your personal matter you can either avoid speaking about it and you can say that you dont want to talk about it.

    Or you can hide things that you dont want to say and just give an overall talk .

    You dont have to disclose this matter to your colleagues.

    You know how to deal with your colleagues and balance your personal life and professional life.

    Thank you

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    Re: Boss nosey about personal tensions

    hi
    in this case you should directly go to him and tell him that sir i dont feel comfortable with such questions, therefore please dont humiliate me while asking such questions because i don't want to talk about it.
    you should be in a rude tone while delivering your problem to him. i hopw that it will work

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