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    Boss making some unusual demands from me

    I am working in a government organisation. From the past few days , my boss has been making some unusual demands from me like to help one of the employees when I myself am overburdened with work, to do some of his work also etc. I really think this is fair on his part. How to deal with such a situation?

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. From the past few days , my boss has been making some unusual demands from me like to help one of the employees when I myself am overburdened with work, to do some of his work also etc. I really think this is fair on his part. How to deal with such a situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    You may have to face many types of situations in your life.you should develop capacity to face those situations very boldly.The situations may arise from your career,family,society etc.It is not only for you,but it is common to all.

    It is quite natural for a boss to look after all.Since you are a capable employee,that is why your boss expects your help for others.You can help him by giving directions to do work.Really it is very difficult to do work for others.You can share him your wisdom & ask him to do his work.You can make him free to ask you for any doubts.You can reply your boss in assertive attitude.

    Thanks & good luck.


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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. From the past few days , my boss has been making some unusual demands from me like to help one of the employees when I myself am overburdened with work, to do some of his work also etc. I really think this is fair on his part. How to deal with such a situation?
    Hello Aspirant,

    It is in practical that the employer wants good employee,but in practical,It is not so easy to get full devotee,inteligent & useful employee.Since you are the efficient & capable employees to work,the management expects the result from you by helping others.The colleague whom you have to support,may be relative of any member of the management.

    You should help others after completion of your works .You can give guidelines to do work .This type of help will make others capable of doing his own work.People learn only when he/she does something.Unless & until one does work,he/she can not do any thing.So you can inform your boss for the same thing.


    Good luck.


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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    Hello friend,

    First thing that I want to say is , that you are a good employee the reason is , if your boss is saying to help another one of your co-employee it shows that you are in good books of your boss and he thinks that you are a good performer and a good employee otherwise he will not demand from you. The thing you are saying that is not unfair because helping someone in your office is not so much of a burden but you should focus on your work first and give a little help to him also and that will create a good impression on your boss and that guy too. So helping is a thing that can help you in future . Try to manage and if you are having any major problem regarding this then go and share with your boss. I'm sure he will understand you.

    thanks.

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    Hello,

    This happens all the times in goverment organizations. You should not
    afraid to help your fellow colleagues. It is a strength and a good human
    quality to help others in their hour of need. The boss is confident of your
    ability that's why he is asking you to help your fellow colleagues. You should
    take this opportunity and show your leadership skills to your boss.

    In this way a good work culture will develope in your office place.

    Bye,

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    Hi friends.

    If your boss is saying to help another one of your co-employee it shows that you are in good books of your boss and he thinks that you are a good performer and a good employee otherwise he will not demand from you.
    The thing you are saying that is not unfair because helping someone in your office is not so much of a burden but you should focus on your work first and give a little help to him also and that will create a good impression on your boss and that guy too.
    So helping is a thing that can help you in future .
    Try to manage and if you are having any major problem regarding this then go and share with your boss.
    I'm sure he will understand you.

    Thanks!!!
    ALL THE BEST.............

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    Hi,

    It is in practical that the employer wants good employee,but in practical,It is not so easy to get full devotee,intelligent & useful employee.Since you are the efficient & capable employees to work,the management expects the result from you by helping others.The colleague whom you have to support,may be relative of any member of the management.

    You should help others after completion of your works .You can give guidelines to do work .This type of help will make others capable of doing his own work.People learn only when he/she does something.Unless & until one does work,he/she can not do any thing.So you can inform your boss for the same thing.

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    hii sir, i can understand that your over burdened with others work on you... its not fair that you very time help others because you bonded by your work and you need to deal with work pressure from all sides.. its OK that you help other if they lack in skills required for the job but they need to learn from the mistakes and need to develop skills that required for the job... you need to tell directly to your boss that its very difficult to do work of others every time.... now-a- days people have become so mean that you don't do others work and don't help them every time they usually hate us a lot.. so need to cut down expectation from you only..

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    now you are overburdened & boss wants that you should help to other employee.
    It's good point that boss having trust to you.
    If you think positively , then you having a chance to become best for your boss & you having very nice chance to get promotion fastly in future.
    your boss select you as a best of his employee.
    here , you have tolerate some over burden by boss , but also having a good chance to become a good employee in your company & also against your boss.
    so , i think you should try to help that employee & also focus to your work.here , you should not refuse to help & you can not do anything else without help.
    if you help to that employee , it's also indicate your some good ability exist in yours , your team work spirit , your interest to work etc.It's good sign of good employee.

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    Hello,

    You have to convey to him straight forward that you are already over burdened with work.Now,these extra works are really putting you into further trouble.Now the point is if you simply avoid his instructions regarding the extra work,then you might be put into trouble.It will be better,that when he asks you to undertake these extra works,simply say that you can can take only one responsibility.Multiple responsibility will put your own work at stake.You have to convince them in this way.If he is sensible enough then he will surely understand your point.

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    hi friend .. some time we have to face this type of problems in our job life .. what you have to do is that if you are finish your work on time then you are able to help the other person to complete his/her pending work which is suggest by your boss. but if your work is also pending then you'll be able to clearly said the your officer that first of all i have to complete my work after then if their is a free time is left then may be i help the other person otherwise so sorry to him/her ..
    thanking you hope you like my suggestion....

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    Re: Boss making some unusual demands from me

    You may want to encounter various conditions within your life.you will need to create chance to encounter those conditions very boldly.The conditions may well develop through the vocation,family members,culture etc.It isn't only for yourself,however it is present with all.

    It is normal to get a employer to tend to all.Since you are a able staff,this is the reason your employer expects your current guide to get others.You can certainly help him or her through providing guidance to perform work.Really it truly is hard to will work to get others.You could share him or her your current intelligence & let him express to perform his work.You could get him to absolve to impose a fee just about any doubts.You could solution your employer throughout assertive attitude.
    That is in practical that the business wants great staff,employing practical,It isn't so simple to obtain 100 % devotee,inteligent & useful employee.Since you're the productive & able staff members to be effective,the actual control expects the outcome within you simply by supporting others.The colleague who you must assist,could possibly be comparative of a typical an associate the actual management.

    You'll want to guide other people immediately after completion of your respective operates .You can provide suggestions for you to will work .This type of guide is likely to make other people able to sing their own work.People discover as long as he/she does indeed something.Unless & until finally 1 really does work,he/she can't do just about any thing.So it is possible to tell your employer for the same thing.
    Very first thing that I want to have to say is , that you're a great staff associated with , in case your employer says to support an additional one of your co-employee that demonstrates that you enter great books of your respective employer and then he considers that you're a great musician and a great staff or else he will not really demand from customers from you. One thing you will be announcing that is not illegal simply because supporting an individual throughout your office can be less than a very good burden but you will need to center on your projects 1st and present somewhat help to him or her likewise and will generate a great opinion on your employer and that gentleman too. And so supporting can be something that will help a person in the future.Consider to control and if you're getting just about any huge problem relating to this go as well as share with your boss. I am sure he will comprehend you.
    Such a thing happens most the times throughout goverment organizations. You ought not
    afraid to support your fellow colleagues. It's a durability and a great individual
    top quality to support other people within their an hour connected with need. The particular employer can be comfortable of your respective
    ability that's why he's asking you to guide your fellow colleagues. You'll want to
    acquire this chance as well as show your current control capabilities for a boss.

    By doing this a great customs will certainly develope throughout your office place.
    If the employer says to support an additional one of your co-employee that demonstrates that you enter great books of your respective employer and then he considers that you're a great musician and a great staff or else he will not really demand from customers from you.
    One thing you will be announcing that is not illegal simply because supporting an individual throughout your office can be less than a very good burden but you will need to center on your projects 1st and present somewhat help to him or her likewise and will generate a great opinion on your employer and that gentleman too.
    And so supporting can be something that will help a person in the future.
    Consider to control and if you're getting just about any huge problem relating to this go as well as share with your boss.
    I am sure he will comprehend you.

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