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    Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    This is a very weird situation. My boss keeps asking me for a party whenever I do something right. Even if I give a presentation he asks for a party. This becomes a very awkward situation for me. What do I do?

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Hi buddy

    I can understand your dilemma as you cannot refuse your boss because you have to certainly maintain good relations with him if you have to survive in the company and get appreciation and promotions. Also if you give him a party everytime then certainly it will hurt you financially. But i dont think you can do much in this situation. Certain habits are very difficult to mend and your boss's habit is one of them. You cant change this habit of his for sure.

    What you can do is try to obey him as much as you can and give him a small treat or something when he asks you for a party which is within your budget. But if it becomes too much for you then you can make some excuse or the other for not giving the party. Dont worry friend. These things are a part and parcel of life . Try to keep your boss happy as much as you can . He will suddenly reward you with appraisals, promotion and salary hikes. Then you wont even remember this part incidents later.

    I hope you understand. Good luck and God Bless

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    dear aspirant,
    asking party for a good thing is a word of appreciation and shows his friendly nature towards his employees.never bother about it much.if you want to give party you can give it may be small or big party as per your wish.if you don't want to give party then leave it with a smile.


    Thank u

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    hello sirit is very good that your boss is very friendly natured and cooperative.as he/she is party lover so try to get it on every possible occasion.But you should not avoid it because this avoidance will be effect on your personal relationship.As you can ask him/her on party time that it is not possible to treat every one of colleagues and you should request him/her that your personal party will expense you.so your boss will convenyce and will not pressed at next time.thanks you

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Hi friends,
    Hope you are in good health and good state of mind!
    It's always a treat and fun to answer your queries.
    I also appreciate the confidence that you have shown in us!

    1)do not worry about this

    2)this is common in any organization if you have do anything as good they will ask party

    3)if want to give party you can give that may be small or big based on your range

    4)if do not have capability to give party give a smile and leave it






    all the best


    I hope I have answered all your doubts.
    It was a pleasure answering your queries.
    Hope that you'll come up with some more challenging queries!
    Till then,take care.


    Bye!

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    give him a grand party once and make good contacts with him..tell him to give him promotion every time keep on asking him about the promotion..grow up in your job,and also in organisation... keeping good contacts with him is fine.. if boss is asking party every time give the same reply as above put a clause then he will avoid you sometimes in asking party all the best

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Hello,

    Your boss asks for party means he is happy with your work ,and asking for party is just a way of appreciating your work.If you get promotion or get achieve something big then give him a grand party.Otherwise bring some confectionary food packets or sweets or small dry fruit pouch for him.And tell him to wait for the big one.Dont take him otherwise.Take what he says in a positive spirit and make him happy with your work as well as some small gifts.

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Hi................,

    Take everything normally.
    Firstly give your boss a small party.
    Then at next step whenever boss get promotion ask for party.
    He can not claim you anymore because you had given party.

    Thanks

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Dear we understand your problem and you also know that this thing happens in various company by the boss or by the team leader but dear you should not take it negatively and concentrate on your work but dear if you feel that it is not going good with you then you should ignore and make some excuses when your boss ask you for the party and hanging out somewhere because when you are not ready to do that then you should not bare it and strictly avoid and be against of that but directly you can not because you are in a job and if you would not accept then you may loose your job and this is the worst situation for you but still you need to focus at your work and tell to your boss clearly that you can not get involve in such type of parties and you really do not like the parties and make any other type of excuse when they ask for parties otherwise you do not have any other way than leaving the job which you may not do

    All the best

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Dear friend you always try to keep your boss happy by way of presenting gift whenever you feel happy.And at taht time Boss ask's you to arrange party that mean's boss intend's to see happy all of your colleague so he tell's you for a party that mean's for your development boss get's gift from you so he try's to press you for party to enjoy by all.Here you must not feel uneasy. as there is reason to give a party on behalf of you then you should agree.You must not deny it if you have any monetary problem then you can tell him freely ,sir I have the intention to give a party but now I am empty pocket.thus you can avert as far as practacable from the hand of your boss.

    Thank You,

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Hello Friend,
    This may be a sarcasm by your boss or he just want to motivate you by joking.but if you are performing well and again and again then you should throw one party atleast...is nt it?.. ...ha ha i was kidding..dn mind.now coming to the point this is a common situation in corporate life and every one will ask you for party on your success but it does not mean that you need to throw a party every time anyone demands.
    so try to avoid this type of demands by giving only a smile in return.dont make any false promise or anything because thats not a issue but they may demand more as the date comes.
    so avaoid it with your smile or throw one party and call everyone to attain such that they will be happy and wont demand again and again and if they demand then you can remind them regarding last party.
    in this way you will have a healthy relation with your colleagues and boss .
    thank you

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    hello,
    dont worry for these kind of situations.
    i think you should get happy because your bass is friendly with you. whenever he asks for party, just smile and say sure sir.
    and just go to your working table, like nothing has happened. take this thing in casual way.
    if he forces you to give party at the time then simply answer him that you are preparing for his next party(ie. you are working hard to get appreciation next time too)
    thank you.

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Hello friend,
    don't worry about these kind of situations..
    these situations are very common in the professional environment..
    I think whenever your boss asks for a party then just smile and say sure sir..
    if you are interested in giving the party then give the party according to your budget...
    If he forces you to give party then tell hem that you are preparing for his next party..

    thanks...

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    Hai,In the present world there are many people who ask or wish to have sumthing from others free of cost..Your boss is also one among them..This is not at all a matter to worry..You should just learn the art of escaping from giving the party by giving reasons or excuses..Dont take tensions..All the best..

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    Re: Boss keeps asking me for a party every time I do something right

    I will perceive your quandary as you can not refuse your boss as a result of you have got to actually maintain smart relations with him if you have got to survive within the company and find appreciation and promotions. additionally if you offer him a celebration every time then actually it'll hurt you financially. however i dont suppose you'll do a lot of during this scenario. bound habits ar terribly troublesome to fix and your boss's habit is one in every of them. You cant modification this habit of his needless to say.

    What you'll do is attempt to adjust him the maximum amount as you'll and provides him a tiny low treat or one thing once he asks you for a celebration that is at intervals your budget. however if it becomes an excessive amount of for you then you'll build some excuse or the opposite for not giving the party. Don't worry friend. these items are a region and parcel of life . attempt to keep your boss happy the maximum amount as you'll . He can suddenly reward you with appraisals, promotion and earnings hikes. Then you wont even bear in mind this half incidents later.

    And you furthermore might understand that this factor happens in varied company by the boss or by the team leader however pricey you ought to not take it negatively and focus on your work however pricey if you're feeling that it's not going smart with you then you ought to ignore and build some excuses after your boss raise you for the party and hanging out somewhere as a result of once you don't seem to be able to do this then you ought to not clean it and strictly avoid and be against of that however directly you'll not as a result of you're in an exceedingly job and if you'd not settle for then you'll loose your job and this is often the worst scenario for you however still you would like to focus at your work and tell to your boss clearly that you simply can't get involve in such variety of parties and you actually don't just like the parties and build the other variety of excuse once they elicit parties otherwise you are doing not have the other method than feat the task that you'll not do

    This may be a real understatement by your boss or he simply need to inspire you by jocular.but if you're activity well and once more and once more then you ought to throw one party at least...is not it?.. ...ha hour angle i used to be kidding..don't mind.now coming back to the purpose this is often a standard scenario in company life and each one can raise you for party on your success however it doesn't mean that you simply have to be compelled to throw a celebration each time anyone demands.

    Therefore attempt to avoid this kind of demands by giving solely a smile reciprocally.don't build any false promise or something as a result of thats not a issue however they will demand a lot of because the date comes.
    Therefore avoid it along with your smile or throw one party and decision everybody to achieve specified they'll be happy and wont demand once more and once more and if they demand then you'll cue them concerning last party.
    during this method you may have a healthy relation along with your colleagues and boss .

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