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    Boss interfering in personal issues with co-employee

    Last month I was quite disturbed with some incidence happened at my home. Due to this I used to be quite at my workplace too. But my boss kept talking to other co-employees asking about my problems to have some gossip and enjoy. Who gave him right to interfere in my life?

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: Boss interfering in personal issues with co-employee

    Hello,

    He has no right to interfere in your personal issue. We all have our own personal issues to
    deal with and we all need space for that. So, you better tell your boss not to interfere with
    your personal problems. A request will surely solve the matter quickly but if it does not then
    you have no choice but to report to the higher authorities.

    Bye,

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    Sanswe Array
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    Re: Boss interfering in personal issues with co-employee

    Hello...

    Well..This is really unfair...!!

    When we directly question or discuss such kinda problems, being a boss there may be chances of retarding you...

    But Instead what all I could suggest is..

    * Your feelings should not reflect on your face or behaviour when you are at work place..

    * Be bold and straight forward...

    * See to it that your colleagues be in their limits when it comes to personal matters unless he/she is your best friend...

    ThanQ..

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    Re: Boss interfering in personal issues with co-employee

    Hello friend,

    As you are saying that your boss is interfering in your personal issue and it seems you like he is enjoying your problems to have some gossip. So one thing I want to ask that are you confirm about this , if yes then It is wrong , but it may be possible that he is asking about your problems because you keep quite in office and this is the reason why he is asking about your problem from others. Try to find out this , it may be possible that he is thinking good for you and that's why he is asking about you otherwise if he is enjoying your problems then you cannot do anything to your boss , because of the obvious reason and that is , he is your boss. One thing you can do is just be happy in office and keep your home problem at home only and in office be happy and calm and that will not give any chance to your boss or other employee to say or ask anything wrong about you. Hope you got my point .

    take care
    thanks.

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    Re: Boss interfering in personal issues with co-employee

    You are right that your boss shouldn't be involved in such gossips and have no right to interfere in anybodies matter. But as you know this is

    common in the office environment that people need some topic so that they can spend good time on it and thus enjoy themselves in the office. You

    can see it is not only about you there would be other topics also which people in the office finds interesting and start unnecessary discussions on it.

    If it is not you than it would be turn of anyone else. So it would be much better that you don't care and ignore such things as more you will care

    more your colleagues and your boss will be interested in gossiping about you. Also this will unnecessarily increase pressure on you. As already you

    have some problems in your personal life. Thinking much about such things and getting involved can make you take wrong decisions and thus can

    effect your career.

    So you must ignore such things and it would be better that you don't speak about your personal matters in the office to anyone else and just try to

    be normal in the office so that your colleagues doesn't get a chance to gossip about you in the office. Your aim must be to get out from the problem

    as soon as possible thus everything else will automatically get into place.


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    Re: Boss interfering in personal issues with co-employee

    Re: Boss interfering in personal issues with co-employee

    Hi friends,

    He has no right to interfere in your personal issue.
    We all have our own personal issues to deal with and we all need space for that.
    So, you better tell your boss not to interfere with your personal problems.
    A request will surely solve the matter quickly but if it does not then.
    you have no choice but to report to the higher authorities.

    Thanks!!!
    ALL THE BEST...............

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