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    Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    I am working in a software company. From the past few days my boss has been giving me unusual looks as if I have done something terribly wrong and this is bothering me a lot. I am really confused as what to do now. How should I clear this matter from my boss?

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    HELLO SIR

    First of all you be confident that there are no mistakes done by you regarding the work in the office. If you are confident about that then you don't need to bother about that looks. And if you want to clarify the doubt, then you may go and ask to the boss directly. Or you can get to know about that looks from your colleages, who are senior to you, and having experience with that boss. so that you can get an idea of why the boss is looking at you so unusual. If you got the mistake or reason, then you can regret. Else you just go to the boss directly and ask about the thing...!!

    HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION...THANK YOU...!!

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    Hi friend

    You should definitely clear your position with your boss as this may not be good for your future. You should definitely speak to him as soon as you can so that he does not hold any grudge against you when you haven't done anything wrong. If he has been giving you unusual looks from the past few days it means something is definitely wrong and thus you should immediately go and speak to him.

    Go to his cabin and tell him that from the past few days you have noticed that he has been giving you some unusual looks as if you have done something wrong. You really are very sorry if you have offended him unknowingly as you can assure him that you didn't mean it all. So you hope that he will forgive you and not keep anything in his heart. You really want to clear this misunderstanding as you really respect him and thus want him to aprreciate your efforts towards the growth of the company.

    I am sure your boss will definitely accept your apology and then everything will be alright. Good luck and Thanks

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    Hello ,
    well , such issues should always be clarified with the authority , in this case , your boss as per what
    has paticularly happened which is troubling you .
    There are many reasons why he must be eyeing you since few days .

    * Could be because of your un-intensional doing in the office .
    * Could be that you have forgetten something work which was IMP to your boss .
    * Could be some misunderstanding or romours flying in the office .

    These things are best when cleared between you and your boss . You will feel much better and
    will be relaxed of the constant thinking and anxiety .


    Just step inside his office and with due respect you could politely ask what is bothering him .
    It may or may not be serious , bu atleast it will be pointed out to you and you can still work on
    whatever your boss thinks is right for you !
    You could also explain it him the reasons once you know why your boss was giving you the looks .

    All the bst , I hope it isnt serious . Misunderstandings keep happening in professional environment , it is
    IMPORTANT that they are cleared once and for all .

    Thank you !

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    Dear,
    Do not be worried. Have some of my suggestions.
    1. Analyze your works starting from the day when boss started giving you the unusual look.
    2. Note them and find remedies for them if you have done something wrong.
    3. If you find the situation as before then talk to your boss directly, politely.
    4. See to the answers he gives and think for the solutions if he really points out about any misdeed.
    5. If he says nothing, do not force, do your work sincerely with more concentration and with more spirit.
    6. Be indifferent to all the looks, handle the situation professionally.

    Bye atke care.

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    You should ask your boos about your performance.

    If he point out any mistake then you have to overcome that one.

    If you are not in fault then you have to discuss that matter with him.

    If he understands your fellings then it is ok.

    If he not understands you then you have to tell to his senior about misbehavioyr of your boss.

    If you are not getting right value of your work in thaat company then you should opt for other company which have values of you and your work.

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    This is a concerning matter and you should look to solve this as soon as possible.If neglected it can turn out to be a big misunderstanding and hamper your work to a great extent.It can also be your misunderstanding that your boss stares at you in that manner and you are interpreting it in the wrong way.Hence you need to have a discussion with your boss regarding this issue.

    -Take an appointment with your boss.
    -Talk about this issue.
    -Tell what you are observing for the past few days.
    -Get to know from him what is the real matter.
    -Ask whether any mistake has been committed by you or not.
    -If committed,be sorry and request for forgiveness.
    -Get to know how you should improve and in which sector.
    -Assure him of not repeating it again in future.
    -If there is no reason,get to know the reason of such kind of act.
    -Explain your problems because of it.
    -try to make him understand how your work is getting affected by that.
    -Request him to look into this matter and resolve it to enable your smooth working.

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    Dear Friend, it is a unusual problem you are facing here. generally if a boss has some problem with his sub-ordinate, he will just tell him about it or scold him or shout about it. but never will it end up like it is in your case. I suggest you recall what wrong you have done just before he started acting like this. see if you have not completed any project or something. see if you have done any mistakes in the recent project or if you have spoke something about him to your colleagues and he might have overheard you or something. if you feel that the failure in your recent project is the problem, then talk to him. but first ask him what is the actual problem? why he is behaving like this with you? also why he is not telling you anything if you have done something wrong? even if you feel that you have not done anything wrong and your boss is simply act like this with you, then talk to him in a friendly and professional way and try to find out what is the exact reason. if you still feel that your query is not answered then I suggest that yu act professional, be sincere to your work and be a smart worker, show him your worth. this will automatically make him change his approach towards you....good luck

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    Hello,

    first you should ask the your boss about the your performance.
    You boss point out any mistakes you have overcome and don'r repeat the mistakes.
    You have maintain the confidence in your work.
    Your boss unusual looks don't mind you and once ask the your problem with your boss.

    I think your cabin change in another side.
    But you can carefully and focus to the work only.
    You have to tell to his senior about misbehavior of your boss.

    So be confident.

    Thanks!!!

    ALL THE BEST............

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    Dear..

    I think you have not done any kinda mistake and you are worrying for no reason. See first of all let me tell you that if you have dome something really wrong then you would have faced the consequences up till but as you have not been called by the boss or you do not find out your mistake that means you have not done anything wrong which is bothering your Boss. There are few things which you can still do to check whether you are right or not. I have listed down something and you have to check according to that points :-

    1. Check all the works done by you in Past 2 weeks and see whether you have done work clearly or not
    2. Check for Errors in your work
    3. Remember whether you are forgetting something told earlier or not and if you are forgetting then its better to complete that work ASAP
    4. Ensure that you are taking long breaks in the middle of the office
    5. Check whether you are following all the office ethics

    If still this is not giving any result then the best thing that you can do is to directly talk to your boss that Sir have i done any mistake or everything is fine and you will get the answer, Believe me he is not gonna kill you if you ask and this will create a positive image too in the mind of your Boss.

    Hope it will help

    Cheers...!!!

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    First of all you be assured that there aren't any mistakes done by you concerning the add the workplace. If you're assured that then you do not ought to trouble that appearance. And if you wish to clarify the doubt, then you will go and raise to the boss directly. otherwise you will get to understand that appearance from your colleages, World Health Organization ar senior to you, and having expertise therewith boss. so you'll be able to get a concept of why the boss is watching you therefore uncommon. If you bought the error or reason, then you'll be able to regret. Else you only attend the boss directly and raise regarding the factor...!!
    You should positively clear your position together with your boss as this might not be sensible for your future. you must positively speak to him as presently as you'll be able to so he doesn't hold any grudge against you once you haven't done something wrong. If he has been supplying you with uncommon appearance from the past few days it means that one thing is certainly wrong and therefore you must straight off go and speak to him.

    Attend his cabin and tell him that from the past few days you've got noticed that he has been supplying you with some uncommon appearance as if you've got done one thing wrong. you actually ar terribly sorry if you've got pained him unwittingly as you'll be able to assure him that you simply did not mean it all. therefore you hope that he can forgive you and not keep something in his heart. you actually need to clear this misunderstanding as you actually respect him and therefore need him to aprreciate your efforts towards the expansion of the corporate.

    i'm certain your boss will certainly settle for your apology then everything are going to be alright.
    well , such problems should be processed with the authority , during this case , your boss as per what
    has paticularly happened that is worrying you .
    There ar several reasons why he should be eyeing you since few days .

    Could be attributable to your UN-intensional doing within the workplace .
    Might be that you simply have forgotten one thing work that was IMP to your boss .
    Could be some misunderstanding or ruefulness flying within the workplace .

    This stuff ar best once cleared between you and your boss . you may feel far better and
    are going to be relaxed of the constant thinking and anxiety .

    Simply step within his workplace and with due respect you may courteously raise what's bothering him .
    it should or might not be serious , bu atleast it'll be discovered to you and you'll be able to still work on
    no matter your boss thinks is correct for you !
    you may conjointly make a case for it him the explanations once you recognize why your boss was supplying you with the appearance .

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    hii sir,i think these looks have some meaning or not don't think too much and do your work and be sincere towards work rathere than thinking about what others look at you no matter whoever looks at you,when you have done no wrong there is no question of being worried about the looks that your boss has given you..
    sometimes its the face value of some people as because and they can't change it at a particular individual.. if you feel that you need to know it then be frank and bold in directly ask him what is wrong with you but i don't suggest you this don't care about these things as because they really don't matter in your work its better don't see your boss face unless he interacts with you be cool

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    Dear it it is a fact then there is something cause behind this because boss will not give you unusual looks without any reason and to know about this you need to ask it from your boss and for that you need to go to your boss and ask them directly that respected sir did i do any mistake in my work or didn't you like my work and if yes then please tell me the reason because before few days i am noticing that your looks are not clear for me that is why i am being upset in my work and completely unable to complete my work and i am sure that they will tell you the reason but if they refuse you then you should come back and do not force them to tell anything about this because you are the new one in that company and may be that it is a behavior of your boss so keep patience and concentrate on your work

    All the best

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    hii,
    if you know you have not done anything wrong then you should not be afraid of anything.
    be confident and do your task efficiently
    if you still want a conformation then you can just directly talk to your boss about any mistake that yo have done in past few days. ask him to tell you that mistake mistake so that you can improve it to make better image and tidy works of yours
    thanks

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    You don't need to do any thing if you don't think that you have done any thing wrong.

    If the boss is giving you such looks it can be due to any reason.

    And if he thinks that you have done something wrong than wait he will contact you himself.

    Going to him and asking about this directly can lead to awkward situations, so leave it up to your boss.

    Alternatively you can go to him for some other work, if any thing is wrong than he will automatically speak to you about it,

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    Re: Boss giving me unusual looks from the past few days

    You should definitely clear your position with your boss as this may not be good for your future. You should definitely speak to him as soon as you can so that he does not hold any grudge against you when you haven't done anything wrong. If he has been giving you unusual looks from the past few days it means something is definitely wrong and thus you should immediately go and speak to him.

    Go to his cabin and tell him that from the past few days you have noticed that he has been giving you some unusual looks as if you have done something wrong. You really are very sorry if you have offended him unknowingly as you can assure him that you didn't mean it all. So you hope that he will forgive you and not keep anything in his heart. You really want to clear this misunderstanding as you really respect him and thus want him to aprreciate your efforts towards the growth of the company.

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