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    Boss getting into personal matters especially married life

    My new boss makes comments on personal life especially married life. Off recent, my boss had been questioning about the reasons for marrying my husband or for that matter, any leave for out of station. It makes me uncomfortable as he is constantly commenting on my behaviour.

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: Boss getting into personal matters especially married life

    Hello,

    This is very delicate issue. you have to handle it with care and intelligence. You should tell your boss
    that his jokes are good up to certain level beyond that is not. You body language should be normal, you
    should not be panic at any stage. If you can just ignore your boss when he makes personal comments.

    Bye,

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    Sai Deep Array
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    Re: Boss getting into personal matters especially married life

    Hello

    The people in office or your boss should not discuss your personal matter .

    This is quite absurd.

    You can be very clear about the fact that you do not want this discussion.

    Try to avoid being in the place where such talks are going on.

    Try to be a bit reserved when they speak about your personal life and thy will get the signal that you donot want to discuss or you are being uncomfortable with this.

    If still the things go on then be straight forward and ask them not to discuss this matter .

    And try to avoid talking about your personal life with your colleagues or in office.

    Thank you


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    Srishti Array
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    Re: Boss getting into personal matters especially married life

    hii,
    well this is serious issue . you should not take that lightly .
    your boss asking about your married life and reasons for getting married is quite uneasy and awkward.
    he is even commenting on every thing you do, even on the leave that you take.
    well firstly try to avoid all the comments and questions . if still his behaviour doesn't change then you should directly submit an application to the HR department about his awkward behaviour.
    till then focus on your work and be happy

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    yogesh Array
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    Re: Boss getting into personal matters especially married life

    hello madamYour problem is not related only you,this problem effects to all female employees.Every female employee does not feel safe.As being a boss you should try to ignore this type's behavior twice or thrice after then you can talk him directly not to do it in future.I hope belonging to good cultural societies he will not do it again.if he try to do it again then legal action can be taken for permanent solution.i hope you will get some relaxing life or environment in office timing.thanks

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