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    Boss gave me a marriage proposal-What should I do?

    I am a female employee in a private organization. Recently my boss proposed me and gave me marriage proposal. But I do not have any such feelings. What should I do to deal with this awkward situation? Moreover I am a fresher and do not want to lose my job.

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    daffodil Array
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    Re: Boss gave me a marriage proposal-What should I do?

    Hi aspirant

    Marriage is a very important part of your life and you should take this decision after giving it a lot of thought. You should consult your family members also who will be the best people to guide you in this matter. If you don't have any feelings for your boss and don't want to marry so soon then you should definitely not accept his proposal at this time. If you talk to him politely then I am sure that he will be able to understand you as he loves you.

    You should tell him that you are not ready for marriage at such an early stage in your life and that you need some more time for it . You want to settle down in your career before you marry. You are really sorry but you cannot accept his proposal at this time. You hope that you have not hurt his feelings and that his attitude towards you will not change due to this decision of yours. You hope that he will take the right and just decision in this case.

    I hope that your boss is able to understand you and this will definitely solve your problem. Good luck and thanks

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    saurav bharti Array
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    Re: Boss gave me a marriage proposal-What should I do?

    hello mam,
    I think you should clearly talk with him. Try to solve this situation as early as possible. If you dont have such feelings then say this to your boss in some indirect way, so that he doesnt gets hurt. Just give him the proposal for friends. Try to convince him. Your conversation with your boss will solve all your problem.
    Hope you get out of this situation soon.

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    aman Array
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    Re: Boss gave me a marriage proposal-What should I do?

    See you cannot marry a man because he is your boss.

    As he has such feelings he has conveyed to you, he as not ordered you to marry him or you will be fired.

    So it is better that you tell whatever you feel about him.

    This will also remove unnecessary burden for you, and more over if he pressurizes you for job reasons than it is better to not work at such place.

    Because if you continue you will have to deal with the situation every day, which won't be good for both your health and your career.

    If you are talented enough and have confidence in yourself you will definitely get a new job.

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