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    Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    I recently wanted to go for my cousins marriage and applied for leave. My boss asked me to show the marriage card to him as a proof. I donít have the card so now he is asking me to show him the invite in email. This is not correct. What should I do?

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    hi,
    well there is no fault in asking the proof as he is your boss. there might be some problems for leaves that is why he is conforming you that. when you know you are saying the roght thing then you should not be afraid of this . go ahead and show him the invite in email. this is no big deal. this happens in company.
    so you should not get irritated with this.
    thanks

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Dear friend,
    It'd be better to show him the proof of your leaves. You can arrange the invitation cards or some kind of email or photographs of the card to ensure him that you are not faking and have a genuine reason. It may seem a little awkward to you but it would be better this way. The professional world works demands proof and there are no strings attached to anyone with any reason. The earlier you set your mind this , the more success you"ll get and more peaceful your life will be

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    He is your boss he have every possible right to demand such things.

    As it is his duty and responsibility to keep check on employees who take leave giving false reasons, as there are many employees who give such excuses to take leave.

    So ask your cousin or any of your relative to scan the marriage card and mail to you which you can show your boss as proof.

    He is not stopping you to take leave.

    He just wants you to show him a proof so that he is satisfied that you are actually taking the leave giving him an authentic reason.

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Hi aspirant

    I think you should show the proof to your boss if he wants to see it. You know that if you have to progress in this company , you have to maintain good relations with your boss. Otherwise you will stand nowhere even if you work hard. So you should not let your boss hold any grudge against you and try to please him. Show him the invite in e-mail and get done with it. Don't make such a big deal of it and always remember to follow your boss's orders.

    If you really want to attend the marriage of your cousin and get your leave sanctioned, then its better that you follow the orders of your boss and give him what he wants to see in order to sanction your leave. Otherwise he will not sanction your leave and you will be in trouble. You may also get into his bad books if you are adamant and don't show him the proof. So I hope that you understand my point and will not make a fuss of this anymore.

    I wish you the best of luck for your future. Thanks

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Generally Boss are asking for the proof because they are not sure that whether your reason for the leave is real or fake...........
    If you are a new employee to the company then you will have to suffer from such problems........
    In this case do as you are being asked by your Boss.
    And for future try to make good relationship with your Boss and convince him before going to the leave.....
    Once the Boss have faith on you then he will not ask for the such type of proof....
    And keep one thing in mind that never take leaves uselessly, it makes a bad impression of you......

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Hello..

    I think your boss doing correct because many employees not show the reason of leaves.
    You can arrange the invitation cards or some kind of email or photographs of the card to ensure him that you are not faking and have a genuine reason.
    It may seem a little awkward to you but it would be better this way.
    The professional world works demands proof and there are no strings attached to anyone with any reason.
    The earlier you set your mind this , then you can more success you"ll get and more peaceful your life will be

    Thanks!!!

    ALL THE BEST..........

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Dear if your boss is asking for actual reason then what do you have problem to show the proof because this is legal and your boss has enough right to ask you about the proof of the reason of leaving from office for some days and you need to care about the decision of your boss because your boss is absolutely right in this matter and you must go to your cousin's house and get a marriage card from that house and show to your boss and mention everything and if you will show that card then your boss will consider you as accurate person in the office but if you will ignore your boss and will not give any proof then your boss will not consider you as accurate person and will think that you always lies whenever you ask for a leave and you will not get any leave in future again so be honest with your job and with your employer too

    All the best

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Hello friend,

    Your boss is asking for proof then just show him the proof.This is the easiest way to get leave.There are some terms and conditions for the leave in every company.Now there must be some need for proof so your boss is asking for proof.It is absolutely right.You must get the proof like card or email to satisfy your boss.And if show the card or proof your boss will take you as a honest employee and he will offer leave to you in future if need be.And if you do not then your boss will have doubt in you which may affect your career as well.
    Give him every detail when you are leaving and when you will come for job again.
    Have a honest and humble relation with your boss.
    Good luck

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    hello friend

    as your boss asked you to show the marriage card him as a proof you shouldn't mind it at all because as he is your boss it is his duty to inquire about the fact.

    if you were in his position then you would also do the same thing.

    if you don't have the card now then you could request him for the leave and promise him to show latter or you can ask your cousin to mail it or post.

    i think it is not the big deal so please don't take it seriously.

    don't spoil your mood for these type of silly reasons and try to be happy.

    so get the leave and enjoy the marriage party.

    all the best

    thank you.

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Hello Friend,

    Well, your boss is not asking anything special , he is just asking you to give him the proof. So, take it easy. You should give him the proof. If you don't have card with you then you can give your boss the contact number of your cousin so that he can talk to her and verify the fact. You have to listen to your boss because if you don't listen to him then your job and career will be at risk. You should try to arrange the invitation card of your cousin so that you can show it to your boss otherwise a telephone conversation with your cousin will do fine.

    At work place it is mandatory to furnish proof along with leave letter to make it a genuine. You should do that to enhacne your reputation at work. Best of luck.

    Bye,

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    hello...

    you should know one thing about private company officers.they will give freedom about your performence and your achievements to your company.

    your boss is having all the quality to asking these type of things.your manager is nice because they told show the evidence not ignore the your leave.

    in some of the companies they will not allow leave for this type of reasons.they are very strict about giving leave...

    so my advice is show the evidence and then take leave...

    thank you..

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Hi, Corporate people have to follow certain rules and regulations. Your manager is also apart of the corporate world. In fact even you should try to stick to these corporate norms else rising up the ladder of success would become very difficult for you. Being a corporate employee, you cannot be too casual in your attitude. In fact when you knew that you had to take leave for the wedding, you should have kept the card or the email with you as you could have been asked to show the proof. Please do not consider your manager wrong if he has asked you to show the invitation card or the invitation mail. Even he is answerable to the higher authority. As of now, you being not able to show the invitation card or the invitation mail is somewhat similar to licking your self-inflicted wound. So, my dear friend, try to get the proof at the earliest from your cousin and show it to your manager so that he could approve your leave as soon as possible. You need not take any unnecessary pressure but act as per the situation. Thanks.

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Hai....

    I do understand your problem. Explain your boss that you are invited to marriage through a phone call because as you are far from native place and a close relative who does not need a special invitation to attend a family function.

    Also inform your boss that while coming back you will bring a marriage invitation card as a proof.

    Also i would like to tell you that as it is your personal reason you do not have to give too many details, just state how it makes you unable to come in to work.

    Confirm the date that you have agreed to come back in to work and sign the letter of with 'Sincerely'.

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    I think you need to display your proof in your manager if he or she desires to find it. You know that if you need to success with this company , you will need to manage excellent relations together with your boss. Or maybe you is going to remain nowhere despite the fact that work hard. So you can't let your supervisor have any kind of grudge towards an individual and then try to you need to him. Exhibit him or her your ask within e-mail plus get accomplished with it. Never produce these a problem of it and also don't forget to comply with your current boss's orders.

    If you want to to visit the wedding within your uncle and obtain your current abandon endorsed, then it has the greater you adhere to the jobs within your manager plus provide him with what exactly he or she desires to find so as to sanction your current leave. Normally he'll almost certainly certainly not sanction your current abandon does not within trouble. Also you can wind up in his or her negative books in case you are serious , nor display him or her your proof. So I hope that you are aware of this position and does not come up with a bother of this anymore.

    But if your manager is usually demanding genuine purpose then what exactly do you possess problem to demonstrate your proof because this is legalized whilst your manager possesses sufficient straight to inquire an individual about the evidence the main reason of leaving behind through place of work for quite a few times plus you must care about your decision within your manager since your supervisor is totally in the following topic so you must visit your cousin's residence and obtain being married cards through that residence plus display in your manager plus talk about everything plus when you demonstrate that cards then this manager is going to contemplate an individual while genuine person on the job nonetheless when you overlook your supervisor and does not give any kind of proof then this manager will likely not contemplate an individual while genuine person and may believe that you always is situated while you ask for a abandon and you should certainly not have any abandon in the future just as before thus be honest with your employment plus together with your supervisor too.
    Your coworkers is usually demanding proof then only display him or her your proof.This is usually the easiest way to obtain leave.There are a handful of conditions and terms with the abandon in each and every company.Now there must be some requirement for proof which means that your manager is usually demanding proof.It is totally right.You must receive the proof such as cards as well as e mail in order to match your boss.

    And if display the charge card as well as proof your supervisor is going to take an individual to be a straightforward staff and hubby will offer abandon to you in the future if will need be.And if you don't then this manager could have doubtfulness within you which may have an effect on your work while well.
    Provide him with everything when you find yourself leaving behind plus while you may come to get career again.

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

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    I recently wanted to go for my cousins marriage and applied for leave. My boss asked me to show the marriage card to him as a proof. I donít have the card so now he is asking me to show him the invite in email. This is not correct. What should I do?
    Hello Aspirant,

    Of course there are different types of leaves such as casual leave,medical leave,earn leave,leave with loss of pay etc are available for the employees,but above it is the office works.So if your boss is asking proof for cause of leave,it is nothing wrong in it & you can very well produce it.You may be having invitation card at your home which you can show it to your boss after return from your home.You need to give a undertaking for it stating ď I would submit it at the time of joining after completion of leave.Your boss is also a human being & he may be agree for it.


    In general this type of situation arises when one is not having good relation with the boss.So think of it & if it is true for you,you may develop a good relation with your boss by obeying his order,doing hard work etc.

    So give a undertaking & you may attend your cousinís marriage with your bossís permission.

    Good luck.

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    Re: Boss asks for proof of reason of leave

    Dear Concern,

    there may be some reason just because of your boss may be wants that you should continune with him or anything else reason. I think you should show the proof to your boss if he wants to see it. You know that if you have to progress in this company , you have to maintain good relations with your boss. Otherwise you will stand nowhere even if you work hard. So you should not let your boss hold any grudge against you and try to please him. Show him the invite in e-mail and get done with it. Don't make such a big deal of it and always remember to follow your boss's orders.


    In general this type of situation arises when one is not having good relation with the boss.So think of it & if it is true for you,you may develop a good relation with your boss by obeying his order,doing hard work etc.

    Thanks

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