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    Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    I am a female counselor of an Institute and my age is 24. I am involved into back office work also. I find bit difficult to deal with same age group students. Please advise me, what changes should I adopt in my personality to make an aura.

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    Hi~

    Thought is very important.

    your dress must not be so attractive.

    Prefer wearing salwar and suit.Be simple and perfect in your work and if you feel any disturbance from others ,complain to the management.

    Thanks.

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    Post Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    ~~ HI ~~



    ~~ Tips for you ~~


    ~_~ As a female counselor,its quiet difficult to handle them ~_~

    ~_~
    Don't talk with other than the business even they tried to do so ~_~

    ~_~
    If you see such problem then you can direct them to male staff ~_~

    ~_~
    Don't give your contact number instead give only institute number ~_~

    ~_~
    Be user-friendly and don't be rubbish too ~_~





    ~~ Thank you ~~

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    Hi. When you deal with the students of the same age group as yours, maintain professionalism , don't let them cross the line.

    You should be firm while you talk to them. At the same time it is also necessary to get into their shoes and analyse the situation.

    You can take the fact that you are of the same age group in your stride by quoting examples from your own life to which they can relate and also get inspired.

    Hopefully i have solved your query. Best of luck for your future. Thanx )

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    Respected guest,
    As a female you should remember one think that you have some good and welled dress up style.
    i.e. wearing formal or suit in which you have seems in good personality.
    you are going and asks with group those you like.If this will be good group and share the view and ask for friendship.
    one think you should remember that be polite and show the attitude to any one..

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    Dear, Friend it is not the time many of the female councellor face the problem to dealt with the same age group of people. You can adopt the following method to overcome from these type of problem they are -1. You should be less talkative talk only on the matter.2.you should don't mix with them if they treat you like friend.3. You should not share about your personel life with them.4. You should not give any personel thing like personel mobile number.5. After this if they disturb you then you can complain it to the management.You can do this things only if they disturb you. With thanks

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    respected madam,
    while dealing with the students of your age group you must follow these guidelines
    1)you should be simple
    2)you should not be friendly with anyone
    3)it is better to wear saree and salwar
    4)you should not look so attractive
    5)you should complaint to management if they behave wrongly

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    By following simple things below stated, you can manage the condition perfectly even you are dealing with a same age group students-
    • Vanish the thinking on your mind that they are same age students, think that they are only the students and you have to deal with them, like you deal with others.
    • Behave with them in a proffesional way.
    • Don't share your personal life with them. Because once they peeped into your personal life, they may feel free to talk with you.
    • Don't share your mobile number and other details.
    • If you face any kind of difficulty, immediately report the matter to management.

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    By following easy things below expressed, you'll be able to manage the condition utterly even you're handling a same age bracket students-
    Vanish the thinking on your mind that they're same age students, suppose that they're solely the scholars and you've got to affect them, such as you affect others.
    Behave with them in an exceedingly skilled approach.
    Don't share your personal life with them. as a result of once they peeped into your personal life, they will be happy to speak with you.
    Don't share your mobile range and alternative details.

    If you face any reasonably problem, directly report the pertain management.
    As a feminine you must bear in mind one suppose that you just have some smart and welled dress up vogue.
    i.e. carrying formal or suit during which you've got appears in smart temperament.
    you're going and asks with cluster those you prefer.If this can be smart cluster and share the read and evoke relationship.
    one suppose you must bear in mind that be polite and show the angle to anybody..
    When you affect the scholars of constant age bracket as yours, maintain expertise , do not allow them to cross the road.
    you must be firm whereas you discuss with them. At constant time it's conjointly necessary to induce into their shoes and analyses matters.Thought is extremely vital.
    your dress should not be therefore enticing.
    like carrying pants and suit.Be easy and excellent in your work and if you are feeling any disturbance from others ,complain to the management.
    you'll be able to take the very fact that you just ar of constant age bracket in your stride by quoting examples from your own life to that they'll relate and conjointly get impressed.
    Hopefully I even have resolved your question. better of luck for your future.

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    Hi. When you deal with the students of the same age group as yours, maintain professionalism , don't let them cross the line.

    You should be firm while you talk to them. At the same time it is also necessary to get into their shoes and analyse the situation.

    You can take the fact that you are of the same age group in your stride by quoting examples from your own life to which they can relate and also get inspired.

    Hopefully i have solved your query. Best of luck for your future.

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    hello friends..

    @ you should have a good communication skills

    @ you should be a simple

    @ do not be attractive

    @ do not do any friendship with colleagues

    @maintain good relation with higher authority

    @ always be smile on your face

    all the best

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    hello,
    just have confidence in your self.
    give the precise information regarding the issue at that time.
    try to give concise information so that you could handle more people in less time.
    just treat every one at same level.
    and last thing, keep this thing in mind that it is because of them you are on the job.

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    Re: Being a female student counselor how to deal with same age group students?

    hello madam
    In corporate culture no one is elder or no one younger just profession and behaviors make important role.
    When you affect the students of mature age bracket as yours, maintain expertise views
    , do not frank them for crossing the way .
    you must be firm whereas you discuss with them.
    At counsling time it's common that eye contact
    activity and quality should be wear all time.
    only necessary toppic should be includes.
    You should understand and analyses matters.
    Thought is extremely better.
    I hope a good confidence level also has important role so try to with it

    thanks
    @PathakDheeresh

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