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    All my colleagues have a wrong impression of me that I am very arrogant, which is causing a lot of trouble for me

    I am working in a software company. It has been 6 months since I have joined this job and it is very surprising that my colleagues, without knowing me much, have already formed the impression that I am very arrogant. This is not true at all. What to do in such a situation?

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    hardick Array
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    Re: All my colleagues have a wrong impression of me that I am very arrogant, which is causing a lot of trouble for me

    Well sometimes you think that you are right but other thinks that you are wrong it is a human behaviour, according to one person other is right but opposite to that other is wrong this happens because of different way of thinking when the frequencies of two mind not match then these kind of situation occurs and both the person are right on their place but according to their point of you. Some people say that you are very much arrogant but as it is your natural way of speaking you think that you are not so you should listen to the colleages that what problem they are facing and why they think you are arrogant so that you should understand that what you need to improve, if you atill want to be same as you think you are right then tech those employees that this is the proffesional way of working if you dont like then leave the company thats it.

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    lamborgini Array
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    Re: All my colleagues have a wrong impression of me that I am very arrogant, which is causing a lot of trouble for me

    Hello,

    It must be a misunderstanding by your colleagues.
    You must not worry about what they think.
    Once you become friends with them , they will know and will have the correct your impression.

    You must have behaved so sometimes that may be the reason of their such thinking.
    Recall if ever such an event took place.
    And try to rectify that mistake.

    And behave in a polite and cool manner with every one.
    Try to be friends with all the employees.

    You should be cooperative with other employees.
    You can also sometimes help them so that they do not think that you are arrogant

    Good luck

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