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    All my colleagues are forcing me to join the disco party, thrown by one of them, but I donít want to go there

    I am working in a software company. I have recently joined this company. One of my colleagues is throwing a disco party and he wants everyone to be there. Although I tried to refuse him, as I donít like such parties at all, but all my colleagues are forcing me to join the same. How to get out of such a situation?

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: All my colleagues are forcing me to join the disco party, thrown by one of them, but I donít want to go there

    Hello Friend,

    Well, every individual is diferent form one another. Human nature varies from people to people. Some people are extrovert and like social gathering but there are some people who are introvert as well. Your colleague must respect your decision as you are a grown individual. If you are not at all comfortable with the disco party then you should not go there. You have to follow your own moral and professional ethics all the time. You should talk to your colleagues and tell them your are not interested in disco party and prefer to stay at home. This would be the best possible answer to give in a situation like this.

    Bye,

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    manojbadoniya Array
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    Re: All my colleagues are forcing me to join the disco party, thrown by one of them, but I donít want to go there

    If you have already refused to go there because you do not like this at all even after your colleagues are not ready to understand you and forcing you a lot to join the party then I have to say that you should keep such type of habits in your professional life because in future you will get new job or promotion or hikes and company will organize parties then you will have to join and here your colleagues are forcing but there you will be forced by the boss of the company then how would you refuse your boss and if you will refuse your boss then he will not take you good at this place because understanding is everything about the profession and such type of parties are generally organized in professional arena that is why you should have such type of habits to face future challenges

    May be that you do not like parties and may be that you do not drink or smoke so these are the other parts of parties where you will not be forced by anyone and if you seems to be forced then you can clearly refuse so they will understand about your rules and principles in life so I would like to say that do not make your colleagues angry on that issue and just join the party because you can not refuse again so you should go there and have enjoy and if you do not like then you should not worry and just stay aside of the floor and look everyone that what they do to enjoy in life then you will understand what is it

    All the best

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